It's Time To Just Say It...

[Vulpine]

If after two weeks the majority of people are not satisfied in how I am conducting myself...I'll step down.

You don't need two weeks: people are already not satisfied with how you are conducting yourself. You should step down.

 

[Last Man Standing]

All feminists should be hung by their balls!!!!!!

 

[blueguy]

Actually...I have another proposal. Make me a moderator on a trial basis for two weeks. I will promise ONLY to delete personal attack posts made to me and NOT delete or censor people who just disagree with me. This will accomplish four things:

1. I will never feel compelled to defend myself because I would simply be able to delete the personal attacks as soon as I see them.

2. It will discourage those attacking me from doing it because I won't respond and I will be able to delete their posts.

3. No one else would have to deal with having threads locked because they get derailed.

4. I will be able to focus entirely on giving advice and input...which is what I really would prefer to be doing.

I have demonstrated that I am fully capable of disagreeing with people without getting angry. I've never had any problems with the vast majority of the people here. It is only a few people who are attacking me. The mods clearly don't want to deal with it. I'm offering a solution that will resolve this issue once and for all. I've moderated forums before...including a larger one than this that was basically a masculinist vs feminist battleground. In a years time I never banned anyone (It was my forum), and only deleted posts that I absolutely had to delete. If after two weeks the majority of people are not satisfied in how I am conducting myself...I'll step down.

And how exactly does that proposal continue the cause to help AFCs? LOL.

It's all about you!!!!!

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

You guys are missing the great value of having Wyld here among us.

She proves many of our most subtle points about managing women. She has been constantly abused, treated like cr*p, and humiliated on this site, for YEARS!, and she keeps not only wanting more, but begging for more!

Cesare Cardinali

 

[Falcon]

Falcon, what does anyone gain from watching television?

Good point.

Even if she is a troll though, she still loses the most. Maybe I just need to get better at avoiding her posts.

 

[Wyldfire]

Just a few of the PMs I haven't yet deleted from my PM box: (I took out any details that would identify who they are from)


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Hey girl,
I support you and I don't understand why you're getting all this heat from these guys. It's wacky. I mean, you're just trying to talk things through and look for some support, not moral judgements of you and your life.
It's wack. It really is. I don't understand their motives, these guys.

Your advice is good, and I believe in you and trust your judgement.
In fact, these posts you made really gave me a better picture of who you are.

I don't know, I just wanted to let you know that you're on the right track, and you are a good person despite what a lot of these knuckeheads say.

The truth is I'll bet if they knew you in person, they wouldn't act that way.
Plus, remember a lot of these so called imagined DJ's are just bitter and resentful guys who were AFCs all their lives and got beat up by a woman, now they feel they have some imagined "power".
It's just a defense mechanism, and you should, as you've been doing, NOT take them seriously. No matter how intelligent they post.

Your intuitions are spot on, Wyld.

You go, girl.
And good luck with your life, your work,your daughter and all your children,DF, and maybe a romantic relationship in the future.
I mean it.

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Thanks for the tip on my post. I wanted to tell you that I've enjoyed your posts and they've helped me a lot actually. You really contribute a lot to this forum, and I'm glad a few trolls haven't discouraged you.

Thanks for the response, and everything you've done to help guys like me...that haven't really posted much. Take care, and keep up the good posts! They may help more people than you think!

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thank you
wyldfire i would like to thank you for your help. i took your advice.

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I wanted to just let you know that your advice is appreciated. I know I look forward to your replies.
Don't let these guys get to you.
I saw your helpful replies, and the condescending attitude you got from some of these guys.
We're not all like that.
Contrary to what these guys may think and write, we really need your viewpoint and opinions here.
I don't care what they say. You are appreciated.
You're a Class Act in my book.
take care and God bless you and your kids

 

[Falcon]

Actually...I have another proposal. Make me a moderator on a trial basis for two weeks. I will promise ONLY to delete personal attack posts made to me and NOT delete or censor people who just disagree with me. This will accomplish four things:

1. I will never feel compelled to defend myself because I would simply be able to delete the personal attacks as soon as I see them.

2. It will discourage those attacking me from doing it because I won't respond and I will be able to delete their posts.

3. No one else would have to deal with having threads locked because they get derailed.

4. I will be able to focus entirely on giving advice and input...which is what I really would prefer to be doing.

I have demonstrated that I am fully capable of disagreeing with people without getting angry. I've never had any problems with the vast majority of the people here. It is only a few people who are attacking me. The mods clearly don't want to deal with it. I'm offering a solution that will resolve this issue once and for all. I've moderated forums before...including a larger one than this that was basically a masculinist vs feminist battleground. In a years time I never banned anyone (It was my forum), and only deleted posts that I absolutely had to delete. If after two weeks the majority of people are not satisfied in how I am conducting myself...I'll step down.

hmm you hosted a masculinist vs feminist forum? Maybe you really love that kind of fighting/debate. Why can't you go back to it? It's probably rubbing off on your posts in sosuave. Sosuave is a place of learning and it is not for any of that stuff.

 

[blueguy]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[TheVirtualMind]

Oh god...First you want to be a moderator, then you post PM's you got...

Are you married to Player_Supreme, by any chance?

 

[Vulpine]

You guys are missing the great value of having Wyld here among us.

She proves many of our most subtle points about managing women. She has been constantly abused, treated like cr*p, and humiliated on this site, for YEARS!, and she keeps not only wanting more, but begging for more!

Cesare Cardinali

Whoa.

WHOA!

Hmm...

:crackup:

OMG! ROFL!

LMFAO!

Oop... oop... AWww... I just p'd my pants!

Wow! I've seen some serious tooling before, but the expression just doesn't give justice to what just happened here. Pwned. Told.

Thank you, Cesare Cardinali, for pointing out just how SoSuave turned her out. I don't think I'll ever be able to read another one of her posts without laughing.

The frame has been forever changed.

 

[Wyldfire]

hmm you hosted a masculinist vs feminist forum? Maybe you really love that kind of fighting/debate. Why can't you go back to it? It's probably rubbing off on your posts in sosuave. Sosuave is a place of learning and it is not for any of that stuff.

I actually started the forum years ago because it bothered me the way men who tried to debate issues about feminism with women were being censored and banned. So...I made a forum that was genuinely fair and provided a level playing field where people from both sides of the argument could hash out their differences. I ran it for a year...and it got several thousand posts a day and was very popular and busy. It actually moved even faster than this forum does. After a year I turned it over to a man who was a self-proclaimed misogynist because he respected what I did for himself and other men by giving them a fair place to debate the issues and I knew he would continue to run it in the spirit I had. He ran it for another couple of years until all the angry people ended up getting to be really friendly and actually liked and understood each other so he made a new forum totally unrelated and closed the gender issues forum.

Want to know why I am here....look up the term Generativity...that would best describe my purpose here.

 

[MT3]

Too many AFC's are trying to be Captain Save-A-Ho over cyberspace, some how winning Wyld's affections.

Holy fvcking sh1t, and here was me thinking I was the only one noticing WyldFires addiction to AFC brown nosing.

Fact is WyldFire is you're not here under compassionate grounds. In fact your little "I'm here to help guys who need it" ruse is demeaning to the intelligence of everyone on this site.
You're just a lonely house wife who wants attention and praise, and you get both from AFC's on this site.

It's utterly pathetic that the mods don't ban you. They've banned many other posters for much less.

I think the problem is that she doles out so much misinformation and self-serving advice so continuously that half this forum wastes half our time disproving it all. A GREAT DIVERSION of OUR time, minds, energy and resources.

Agreed. Looking at it her advice you'll realize she contributes nothing new, she'll just mutilate and re-hash Pook advice.
"You need to stop blaming others"
"Take responsibility for yourself"
Apart from that she'll make some attention posts so she can bask in a little AFC praise. It's like a complete novice telling someone who has just learned and instrument they're some sorta professional.

My final point is that she has ABSOLUTELY no experience picking up women, having sex with a woman, talking to a woman seductively, social issues from a mans perspective, the list goes on and on. She has less experience than an AFC.

 

[Wyldfire]

Oh god...First you want to be a moderator, then you post PM's you got...

Are you married to Player_Supreme, by any chance?

I deleted portions of the PMs to hide the identities of those who wrote the PMs. I get PMs like that all the time because there are MANY people who appreciate my presence and input. Unfortunately...if they post publicly to say that they automatically are accused of being an AFC or sucking up, etc. It's too bad, too...because if I were to leave this site there would be far more who missed my advice than there are people who don't want me here. That's why a private poll would be better...because people can show their desire for me to stay without becoming a target for attack from those who also attack me.

 

[blueguy]

Aww wyldfire is calling herself generous... how cute.

I deleted portions of the PMs to hide the identities of those who wrote the PMs. I get PMs like that all the time because there are MANY people who appreciate my presence and input. Unfortunately...if they post publicly to say that they automatically are accused of being an AFC or sucking up, etc. It's too bad, too...because if I were to leave this site there would be far more who missed my advice than there are people who don't want me here. That's why a private poll would be better...because people can show their desire for me to stay without becoming a target for attack from those who also attack me.

You can make one... just make it here... see what happens.

 

[Wyldfire]

WOW ANOTHER WYLDFIRE THREAD

somebody FVCKIN shoot me



btw , wyldfire, what's your take on the whole looks debate. i'd be very interested to hear it.

I didn't start this one. My take on the whole looks debate? It should not be a banned subject where threads get closed all the time. I don't think any productive discussions should be summarily locked or banned. It would be much better to limit censorship and just delete the posts of those who can't discuss things maturely. Looks are important. They aren't the only thing that is important...but they are certainly relevant to attraction and I think it's silly that those discussions get locked. Why can't the moderators just delete trouble making posts and let everyone else discuss things? I'm actually very fair and don't like censorship at all. I would not lock topics unless they were extremely inappropriate.

 

[Falcon]

Want to know why I am here....look up the term Generativity...that would best describe my purpose here.

You know, I will never know what your real intentions of being here are for. If this is true, then I really have only one thing to say.

Before you go on trying to help others, first learn to help yourself.

That is all.

 

[Wyldfire]

MT3...about Pook...go look up his Feminism on Trial thread and see who uses whose ideas and thoughts in their threads. I think you'll be quite surprised. HE used MY quotes as his argument against feminism.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Oh god...First you want to be a moderator, then you post PM's you got...

Are you married to Player_Supreme, by any chance?

That was salty....

 

[Desdinova]

I'm actually very fair and don't like censorship at all.

I have demonstrated that I am fully capable of disagreeing with people without getting angry.

I think it's interesting how you try to reassure the membership here that their opinions about you are wrong. Some people may agree with your opinions about yourself, but others will continue to form their opinions based on your actions, your words, and your personal life.

One thing that has been reinforced the entire time you've been here is that you should listen to a woman's actions rather than her words.

 

[WestCoaster]

Misinformation out there? The misinformation out there is the AFC society which has psychologically castrated men. This is the only site I know that actually tells it how it should be. That said, any movement has extremists, just like the feminist movement.

The PM's sent to Wyld mostly from AFC's looking for validation from any woman.

Bit by bit, Wyld is trying to tear down what this site stands for. So many AFC's are validated by her. Any time they get a little healthy dose of tough love/cyber slap by a DJ, Wyld comes running in saying we're all wrong.

If you don't agree with the philosophies of this site, why hang around? Makes no sense to me.