It's time to come clean and say the playboy life is not possible for men after 30.

[drakeisfire]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

 

[Igetit!]

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Hmm.....interesting.

I wonder what Hugh Hefner would have said about all that.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Why do you have this opinion? What is it based on?

-Augustus-

 

[sexymanman]

Hmm.....interesting.

I wonder what Hugh Hefner would have said about all that.

Heard rumors that hugh watched gay porn while banging his playboy bunnies and they were yelling out **** her daddy.
could be fake news though.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Not completely true. 30 is aroun the age that married women will go through midlife crisis and begin to cheat. You just gotta know how to associate with those women. Also, most of those dudes who are angry and bitter are divorcees, meaning that got raped in court, or they’re those weirdos who may not have ever had a shot to begin with. Even more, if a dude does MAKE it at that later age and has a lot of fun, I can tell you from my time here on SS that none of those dudes stay around once they actually start living that lifestyle. So many older guys here bailed once they figured things out. You can even find hella testimonials if you look hard enough. None of those guys end up getting married though because their game is usually on a whole other level where they know too much about women RIP.

 

[Kotaix]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Lol... this is absolutely not true. Your 30s are way better than your 20s. You need to kick this mentality or you're going to be one of the bitter angry dudes you talked about. Life gets easier as you age, provided you continue to educate yourself over time. School never ends, but most people drop out of life and sit on their couch and get fat. It's up to you what you're going to be.

 

[samspade]

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

What bitter woman fed you these talking points?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

You're absolutely correct.

I recommend you join the nearest sewing circle where you can be yourself.

 

[Medina]

If you are on the ball = age is irrelevant

You CAN be on the ball in your teens

But most guys hit it later rather than sooner

That's where the rhetoric comes from

I was primed at 28 for example. And still strong early 30's

You're bitter because you've lost that ball

It's got nothing to do with age. It's all to do with you

 

[sosousage]

its over bro

 

[Dash Riprock]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Absolutely 100% wrong.

I'm living the life now: live in a very desirable city, no kids, own a house and business, hike, bike, lift, take trips, and bang women very often 20-25 yrs younger. Last 3 girls I've been with (f*ucked) over the last 5 weeks were 29, 26, 25. I'm over 45. No, I don't pay them either unless you count food and drinks.

OP, kill your negative defeatest attitude. You become what you think about most often.

Ciao,

Dash

 

[Poonani Maker]

I'm tellin ya I look better at early 40s than I've pretty much Ever looked, HOWEVER, the more I exercise to get rid of my gut by running (not so bad) almost every day 3+ miles after work and on weekends and by plank/pushups (bad), my face around my lips has begun to sag, but it's like Wtf am I supposed to do?? I need to get back to 6-pack abs for Balance more than just looks. I'm more balanced on foot now, but my face (from straining I guess) around my mouth is starting to get looser or sagged and I can't stop it. Your skin doesn't snap back like it did when under eh about 42-43 years of age. You can't stop it, so you'd better have Money to boot to attract at this age.

 

[RangerMIke]

As you get older things change.... Is the quality of women I date now less than when I was in my 20s? Sure. But at 52, my energy level isn't nearly as good as it once was. Getting chicks in their 20s now is harder, but not impossible, and I really don't even try anymore because I feel foolish. The wild and crazy sexcapades I had in college and my 20s as a junior officer is stuff I left behind over 20 years ago. Although rare, it sill happens... I just never expect it.

You should not measure yourself against others... measure against yourself and want and can realistically attain. I can not compete with guys in their prime unless I am willing to use money to level the playing field... which I will never do. Never let a chick use you for money.

You should always strive to be the best person you can be wherever you are in life. I'm in great shape for a man my age... most of my friends from HS and college are steaming piles of cr@p waiting to die, I can run circles around all of them, and truth is I am in better shape than most men in their 30s. It is a lot of HARD work... but there is no fvcking way I will ever be able to lift as much weight as a guy in his mid-20s, and if a chick is looking for some buff stud... well that isn't me... so naturally I will have fewer opportunities... but I'm not dead... not yet.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

As you get older things change.... Is the quality of women I date now less than when I was in my 20s? Sure. But at 52, my energy level isn't nearly as good as it once was. Getting chicks in their 20s now is harder, but not impossible, and I really don't even try anymore because I feel foolish. The wild and crazy sexcapades I had in college and my 20s as a junior officer is stuff I left behind over 20 years ago. Although rare, it sill happens... I just never expect it.

You should not measure yourself against others... measure against yourself and want and can realistically attain. I can not compete with guys in their prime unless I am willing to use money to level the playing field... which I will never do. Never let a chick use you for money.

You should always strive to be the best person you can be wherever you are in life. I'm in great shape for a man my age... most of my friends from HS and college are steaming piles of cr@p waiting to die, I can run circles around all of them, and truth is I am in better shape than most men in their 30s. It is a lot of HARD work... but there is no fvcking way I will ever be able to lift as much weight as a guy in his mid-20s, and if a chick is looking for some buff stud... well that isn't me... so naturally I will have fewer opportunities... but I'm not dead... not yet.

Im 47 my lifts are all stronger than 98% of 25 yrs old up there with pro football players.

So your never is a bunch of excuses.

 

[guru1000]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Says the 27 yo lol

 

[Who Dares Win]

Im in my mid 30s so I guess Im in the position to have a say in this topic.

Its not age itself that cast a curse on you, its how you age wheter we talk about body shape, hairline/density or skin but most of all energy and vibes.

The second big factor is environment, it doesnt take a research to know that if you are surrounded from young goodlooking girls you have more young goodlooking girls in your life and dating life wheter they are plates or fvck buddies.

The problem most guys above 30 have (and I see many I know exactly like that) is that their energy level falls cause they dont use the one they had anymore, their skin and hair begin to show a less fresh look and of course since they are no longer in universities, the amount of pretty chicks around them decrease and this fact is one of the reason for their drop in motivation and physical shape.

I am a mixed martial artist (it means I fight not that I attend a course twice a week to brag), the only reason why I lost some strenght on big lift its just because I lost weight after getting ripped to fit my real weight class, energy is multiplied instead so is aggressivity in the gym and calmness in my everyday life.

I also work for the european union and at least 3 times per year I have few weeks trips, when its in eastern europe I feel 10 yrs younger, those girls in their mid20s are a blessing.

What would it be of me if I were to spend all my day in an office surrounded from post wall women and fat men and my free time on a sofa?

Probably exactly what you describe.

Dont get me wrong I dont buy either this myth of middle aged men gaining value compared to their younger self or even peaking at 50 yet you make it too harsh generally.

 

[Billtx49]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Drake, this issue has Nothing to do with a woman's race or your age. It’s an internal issue that has Everything to do with your personal attitude, desires, adaptability, and commitment level…

 

[stovepipe]

There's been some really retarded threads lately and this ones up there.

 

[DelayedGratification]

You should always strive to be the best person you can be wherever you are in life. I'm in great shape for a man my age... most of my friends from HS and college are steaming piles of cr@p waiting to die, I can run circles around all of them, and truth is I am in better shape than most men in their 30s. It is a lot of HARD work... but there is no fvcking way I will ever be able to lift as much weight as a guy in his mid-20s, and if a chick is looking for some buff stud... well that isn't me... so naturally I will have fewer opportunities... but I'm not dead... not yet.

Heh. no kidding. The beauty of dating a younger poly woman is that it can be win-win. She date's me, which serves her needs to be around a more stable, mature man. Plus my needs to balance a life of part-time-child-rearing/career with relationship/social-time. But she is free to pursue her needs to spend time with a buff stud, which is just fine. I'll never compete with a half-my-age-5-days-a-week gym-rat (although I'm in better shape than most 20-somethings), but if she gets off on that, no problem... in the meantime, we get to carve out our quality time together.

 

[RickTheToad]

I think the chances of a guy living a life remotely similar to Dan Bilzerian after the age of 30 are nil and the whole agenda that was pushed about how they are a man's prime was garbage. I read a lot of posts by older dudes and they are bitter, angry, and cynical as ever.

Sure some guys will explain it away with a "but priorities change", yeah, for a Chad who actually had all of his fun in high school and college, maybe his early 20s. That guy might legitimately be over the player lifestyle because he lived it out and has had his fill but most men were not a Chad.

This whole idea of a guy coming to fruition at 30 to live out this wild party life of sex with lots of women and cool experiences is BS.

You don't make fun friends after that age, most people are married with kids.

You don't party and have crazy experiences at that age, it's weird and you stick out.

You don't sleep with lots of different women at that age, they prefer a younger guy who is making money or has a trust fund.

You don't do wild fun sh-t because it just comes off as weird and you being a man child.

Just because you're doing it wrong, doesn't mean others are dude. Work on yourself and things will naturally come to you.