"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its Their Fault

Zerotwoonenine

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you know i have read so many posts of men asking whether to next a girl or still try to keep her, what to do when u r in friend zone, what move to do next and it is our fault that girls next us cause we kill the attraction by not knowing what to do.
But have you ever considered, y is it that the girl seem to know the game sincce the day they were born, how to dress, how to put on make up, how to kiss, how to keep you play you, how to gold dig u etc??
Y is it that we blame ourselves when a girl is not interested?
the girls read female magazines that tells them about the game since they learn ABC, their whole lives seem to revolve around how to attract the right male.
So why is it our fault that the attraction gets killed? shouldnt it be the girls fault BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER THEMSELVES? why is it women constantly deny that they play games, then when next time u recongise they do and do something about it, they next u because u no what to do??
Its not you fault u get nexted, remember that, you didnt kill the attraction, they did.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zebedee

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A woman is not obliged to be attracted to you and vice versa. You blame woman but men are just as bad, you are on a forum full of guys (myself included) who want to fvck as many girls as possible and yet you complain about girls who play guys. Kind of ironic dont you think.
 
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