"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its the internets fault

Phat

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Get off the internet. It's not real guys...the internet is the reason why everybody is introverted and scared of real life. The internet gives everybody a place to be somebody their not which is really creepy if you think about it. Thanks to myspace and facebook now more people are starting to become introverted and wierd. No wonder people have social issues, everybody is used to talking online so damn much that they forget how to talk like a person from planet earth, the other day i heard somebody say laugh out loud instead of laughing... ! Stop being addicted to this fake cyber life. Im pretty sure the majority of you would prefer real sex over cyber sex...but the internet is great!!!! You can visit any country via google images, you can test drive any car via youtube, you can even talk to girls and not be afraid of them via myspace, facebook, match.com... you can even look at naked girls with out even approaching them...before all this internet media crap people actually knew how to have a good time. Now all you hear people say nowadays is that im bored. Wake up people! The cyberworld is not real! I don't care what you say, but the internet a mind altering drug, no it cant make you high or drunk. But the internet drug stimulates your imagination giving you instant gratifcation to the things your scared to get in real life. The internet is masterbation period. I bet none of you masterbated before you discovered the internet. Catch my drift?

Theres many internet addiction articles to be found on...the internet lol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cinamon

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lol. Is this rant over?

I think it is important to keep everything in moderation, and where you have a balanced online social life, it is equally as vital to have a real world social life. For most the internet is a source to self help tools that aid them in making their real lives more successful, for others it is a route to escapism, where they can escape the mundane daily life they live.

I am sure maturbation was around long before the internet, i certainly did it before i dsicovered online porn ;)
 

Waking Up

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It's good for getting general facets of your life handled, but even I have to admit my addiction is getting in the way of me making any real progress in my life.
 

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Before I had the internet I spent money on seduction materials, not realizing that A; they were bullshyt, and B: i could get them for free. Internet for me, has merely replaced television. Lazy is lazy, whether its TV, Internet, or reading books. all of which can be educational. I dabble more in educational stuff when it comes to internet, anyway. I always try to learn things.

Oh, and yeah, back in the 'old days,' we had videos and magazines to masturbate too. The only difference was, we didnt have as good as a selection under our beds as we do on the screen. We had to look at/watch the SAME THING over and over again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When my dad was a boy and he had a history report he went to this place called a "library" where you had to go to do research.
 
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