"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its so frustrating how I can't get my true looks to show in pics

mrgoodstuff

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Oh, for fvck's sake :rolleyes:

Didn't you even look at her the first time?
Maybe she'll look better to you again on the third viewing.
He saw she was a human and has flaws and attitude changes. He needs to treat people better and get rid of that superficial crap .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dave sounds like those volcel (voluntarily celibate) women who don't like the men their smv qualify them for. He says he wants the female equivalent of himself, but I truly want to know what this women and other women he doesn't want to date look like.

I think it's time Dave lowers his requirements until he has the skill to date what he wants. Dave says he'd rather be sexless than date women "10 leagues" beneath him.
 

zekko

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Dave sounds like those volcel (voluntarily celibate) women who don't like the men their smv qualify them for. He says he wants the female equivalent of himself, but I truly want to know what this women and other women he doesn't want to date look like
If he joins Match.com, they'll probably match him up with himself.
 

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In "game" and attraction. Bigdave17 needs to take the "money" ( puzsy, affirmation, favor ) from the babes that want him to have it. They will feed him abundance . And allow him into an Alpha "the man" alignment. Their money isn't necessarily any less valuable than the SNOB crowd he's trying to penetrate. But if he keeps bumping his head against the SNOB crowd he can blissfully and blindly relish in the fact he was right, you have to be a "9.99" with $500+k a year to get any babes . The SNOB crowd will never give him abundance, hardly crumbs . And if it does it will be after he's accumulated enough from those who want to be generous to him.
 
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