"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its so frustrating how I can't get my true looks to show in pics

mrgoodstuff

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Oh, for fvck's sake :rolleyes:

Didn't you even look at her the first time?
Maybe she'll look better to you again on the third viewing.
He saw she was a human and has flaws and attitude changes. He needs to treat people better and get rid of that superficial crap .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fzatf

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Dave sounds like those volcel (voluntarily celibate) women who don't like the men their smv qualify them for. He says he wants the female equivalent of himself, but I truly want to know what this women and other women he doesn't want to date look like.

I think it's time Dave lowers his requirements until he has the skill to date what he wants. Dave says he'd rather be sexless than date women "10 leagues" beneath him.
 

zekko

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Dave sounds like those volcel (voluntarily celibate) women who don't like the men their smv qualify them for. He says he wants the female equivalent of himself, but I truly want to know what this women and other women he doesn't want to date look like
If he joins Match.com, they'll probably match him up with himself.
 

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In "game" and attraction. Bigdave17 needs to take the "money" ( puzsy, affirmation, favor ) from the babes that want him to have it. They will feed him abundance . And allow him into an Alpha "the man" alignment. Their money isn't necessarily any less valuable than the SNOB crowd he's trying to penetrate. But if he keeps bumping his head against the SNOB crowd he can blissfully and blindly relish in the fact he was right, you have to be a "9.99" with $500+k a year to get any babes . The SNOB crowd will never give him abundance, hardly crumbs . And if it does it will be after he's accumulated enough from those who want to be generous to him.
 
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