"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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salsipuedes

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God damn it, its so damn easy its ridiculous, so many years afraid of aproaching women, so many years of doubts. Today i am working out at the gym, and i see this really hot woman, one of the finest in the gym, shes working out and for months i only looked at her without ever thinking i could aproach, so i say to myself, "you know what, i am going for it, i am going to ask her to have some ice cream with me, whats the worst that can happen?" so i go up to her, i say "hey how are you, i see you work out pretty hard" and she "yes, i try to keep in good shape" so i introduce myself and i ask her name, she tells me her name and i proceed "i know you probably get this all the time from guys around here, but i would like to get some ice cream or some coffe with you", she smiles and tells me i am wrong, she doesnt get hit on as much as i think, and then shes like, "sure, lets go and get some ice cream".

Its so easy its almost stupid.


Anyways, i had to go to work so i told her we would go another day, i see her almost everyday at the gym, i am going to let about a week pass and let her wonder, and then i am off to get some.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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good work. I would strongly advise not to wait a week. mabye 2-3 days at the most.
 
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salsipuedes

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Originally posted by bbestar
sigh :(

Only if I, could...


**** my pride, **** saving face... **** it all... I hate it
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Exactly the way i was, just say **** it and go for it, whats the worst that can happen? i can´t believe i wasted so many years because i was too chicken **** to show i was a man, i am dating one girl right now, my ex wants me, the secretary of my doctor is hot for me, and now i have the prettiest girl in the gym lined up, and all simply because i decided to say, **** my fears, **** my sensitive image, and decided to act like a man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thumbs up!

Good stuff! :up: ... Keep it up man, I'm happy that another DJ has come out of his shell!

MARCH ON!!!!!!:woo: :woo: :woo:


Laterz...
 
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