"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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its so easy i dont even have to try anymore

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this year ive found my game has hit that prophesied level where you go about doing whatever the fvck you normally do in life and women just turn up and want to fvck you

its taken 5 years of heartbreaks, experience and lessons but now all cylinders are firing

ive got women snapping at my heels , I can send texts like "when are you fvcking me" and actually get answers instead of questions

ive got main plates , side plates , fwb plates .......

I was away on the weekend in another city im chilling on a sofa in a club chatting with my friend minding our own business next thing 2 chicks walk over and start lap dancing us

my first thoughts are ffs these chicks are brass and want money

but no next thing mine says she wants to dance with me , leads me to the floor we dance she kisses me , asks where im staying , back to hotel fvck all night

job done - next please
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this year ive found my game has hit that prophesied level where you go about doing whatever the fvck you normally do in life and women just turn up and want to fvck you

its taken 5 years of heartbreaks, experience and lessons but now all cylinders are firing

ive got women snapping at my heels , I can send texts like "when are you fvcking me" and actually get answers instead of questions

ive got main plates , side plates , fwb plates .......

I was away on the weekend in another city im chilling on a sofa in a club chatting with my friend minding our own business next thing 2 chicks walk over and start lap dancing us

my first thoughts are ffs these chicks are brass and want money

but no next thing mine says she wants to dance with me , leads me to the floor we dance she kisses me , asks where im staying , back to hotel fvck all night

job done - next please
When your successful in the sack it permeates you. They can see it, smell it. You don't even have to say anything.
 

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I can't wait until I get to that level, I'm certainly decided to get there. One step at a time.
one word of advice

FAILURE is essential to SUCCESS

Don't be afraid to try new stuff different stuff whatever it may be

may fail miserably may work like a charm but that is how you gain the experience you need to deal with them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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one word of advice

FAILURE is essential to SUCCESS

Don't be afraid to try new stuff different stuff whatever it may be

may fail miserably may work like a charm but that is how you gain the experience you need to deal with them
The peak of success is built off a mountain of failures. Feedback and keep striving forward.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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My issue is that I need to be able to have girls give me the time of day. If they do I can do pretty much anything. But this gets me wondering, have you always had chicks walk up to you and do **** like that or has this just started haplening somewhat recently? And what so YIU believe that has changed that has allowes you to transcend?
 

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this year ive found my game has hit that prophesied level where you go about doing whatever the fvck you normally do in life and women just turn up and want to fvck you

its taken 5 years of heartbreaks, experience and lessons but now all cylinders are firing

ive got women snapping at my heels , I can send texts like "when are you fvcking me" and actually get answers instead of questions

ive got main plates , side plates , fwb plates .......

I was away on the weekend in another city im chilling on a sofa in a club chatting with my friend minding our own business next thing 2 chicks walk over and start lap dancing us

my first thoughts are ffs these chicks are brass and want money

but no next thing mine says she wants to dance with me , leads me to the floor we dance she kisses me , asks where im staying , back to hotel fvck all night

job done - next please
Transcendence! Yes, it feels damn good, better than a million bucks in the bank. This should be the level that every DJ strives to attain, and IMO, possible for 99% of men willing to put the work in.
 

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A little off topic but..

For me I notice this when I'm not trying so hard or if my attention is diverted away to something else, thats when females try and get my attention.

In my opinion this is usually the result of outcome independent thinking. And it translates over to body language which gives the air of confidence and abundance of supply.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I feel this completely. How far we have both come over the years. I remember the days where I used to sit there and dream of being where I am now and genuinely thinking that I might never get there but here I am.

Chicks really aren't an issue anymore, I don't think have to think about it either. Example the other day, I had just finished hooking up with a girl and I check my phone and another girl is sending me nudes wishing I with her instead, whilst there's another girl cursing me because I was meant to be with her that night. I remember laughing thinking most guys don't have this. It's happening everywhere too, I was at work and this chick who is for me easily the hottest girl in the building, blindsides me and comes to ask my name and who I was because she'd seen me around. A coworker saw this and was just shocked. It's when I'm out with my boys not really worrying about chicks and there's a cute girl staring at me across the bar so I just roll up and give her my number, tell her to message me and she does. It's when I'm getting full head turns from chicks in the street and groups of girls overtly pointing me out. Getting and keeping girls around is not hard anymore but I know there's still a long way to go, shït what's life going to be like at 30.
 

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this year ive found my game has hit that prophesied level where you go about doing whatever the fvck you normally do in life and women just turn up and want to fvck you

its taken 5 years of heartbreaks, experience and lessons but now all cylinders are firing

ive got women snapping at my heels , I can send texts like "when are you fvcking me" and actually get answers instead of questions

ive got main plates , side plates , fwb plates .......

I was away on the weekend in another city im chilling on a sofa in a club chatting with my friend minding our own business next thing 2 chicks walk over and start lap dancing us

my first thoughts are ffs these chicks are brass and want money

but no next thing mine says she wants to dance with me , leads me to the floor we dance she kisses me , asks where im staying , back to hotel fvck all night

job done - next please
All this info is great but honestly without a picture of you, I don't take these stories too seriously.

I'm not saying you're lying in anyway, but it's just that I don't understand why you guys won't post at least ONE pic of yourself so guys can SEE who is providing them advice.

There are women on this forum that nobody even knew were women until they were pressed about it. And I'm sure there are fat, ugly, stupid looking guys on here who are making threads that resemble this one..... except for the entire story is 100% fabricated.
 

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I like to keep my true identity secret

pick up stuff is still pretty tabooed in my area and it wouldn't be too difficult for an angry plate to stumble across so suave

and every post / girl I've written about in the last two years on here

to me its more trouble than the worth of it , every one has the option to believe what they like

although I will add this is primarily a self help forum not a bragging one

don't think many guys here have much reason to fabricate stuff when they stand to gain next to nothing from it
 

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I like to keep my true identity secret

pick up stuff is still pretty tabooed in my area and it wouldn't be too difficult for an angry plate to stumble across so suave

and every post / girl I've written about in the last two years on here

to me its more trouble than the worth of it , every one has the option to believe what they like

although I will add this is primarily a self help forum not a bragging one

don't think many guys here have much reason to fabricate stuff when they stand to gain next to nothing from it
Tell us what country you live in at least.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this year ive found my game has hit that prophesied level where you go about doing whatever the fvck you normally do in life and women just turn up and want to fvck you

its taken 5 years of heartbreaks, experience and lessons but now all cylinders are firing

ive got women snapping at my heels , I can send texts like "when are you fvcking me" and actually get answers instead of questions

ive got main plates , side plates , fwb plates .......

I was away on the weekend in another city im chilling on a sofa in a club chatting with my friend minding our own business next thing 2 chicks walk over and start lap dancing us

my first thoughts are ffs these chicks are brass and want money

but no next thing mine says she wants to dance with me , leads me to the floor we dance she kisses me , asks where im staying , back to hotel fvck all night

job done - next please
I can't help but think this chick thought you were sexy and wanted to get down that night. That was her whole agenda. If said night went as you said, I can't really say whether it's good game related or not because you had to put in no effort whatsoever. I'm gonna say "right place, right time, club slut".

I have probably up to 7-8 women in rotation that I'll snapchst or text. One will disappear for 3 weeks then say come over and hang out. They're really not even plates, most were a one time hangout and turns to fwbs. For me now, it's normal. It's really just a mindset adjustment that women are really "like this" and it's OK to do it. most of these "plates/fwbs" have accrued over the last 3-4 months and they just hang around. It takes effort and a 2 steps forward, one back approach I forget about them, then out of the blue " hey what's x or y up to now?" And send out texts to 3-4 girls.
 

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Avoiding outcome dependency and telling fear to take a hike are great allies. Most people play it safe. Once you're unencumbered by fear the game isn't a game but an automated process.
 

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I like to keep my true identity secret

pick up stuff is still pretty tabooed in my area and it wouldn't be too difficult for an angry plate to stumble across so suave

and every post / girl I've written about in the last two years on here

to me its more trouble than the worth of it , every one has the option to believe what they like

although I will add this is primarily a self help forum not a bragging one

don't think many guys here have much reason to fabricate stuff when they stand to gain next to nothing from it
Just don't put your name on here or any links to your website, facebook, LinkedIn, etc. From there, there's no way anybody can trace you on this website. When you snap a pic, put a pic on here that's not on any other websites.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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