"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's really annoying when a girl suddenly cuts contact with you for no reason

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It's really annoying when a girl suddenly cuts contact with you for no reason, and you later find out that she's with some other guy. Even if you're both good friends, although in this case we're "friends" that could easily be considered "potential lovers". I wasn't friendzoned by this girl.

Can anyone explain to me the psychology behind this? I see it happen all the time to other guys, and just knowing why this happens would be very helpful.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's simple.

Would you rather spend an evening:

a. ****ing a hot chick until neither of you can feel your legs anymore; or
b. chatting to your long-time female friend aboutwhat she did at work that day.

Even though 90% never admit, girls like sex just as much as guys so if they have choose to spend time with a DJ who will shag them senseless, or a friend who they can talk to, they will choose the DJ 90% of the time.
 
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I'm starting to get the idea that having sex with a chick is a very important way to keep her around lol
 
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Vice said:
I'm starting to get the idea that having sex with a chick is a very important way to keep her around lol
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as well as a very important reason to keep her around! :whistle:
 
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