"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's really annoying when a girl suddenly cuts contact with you for no reason

Vice

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It's really annoying when a girl suddenly cuts contact with you for no reason, and you later find out that she's with some other guy. Even if you're both good friends, although in this case we're "friends" that could easily be considered "potential lovers". I wasn't friendzoned by this girl.

Can anyone explain to me the psychology behind this? I see it happen all the time to other guys, and just knowing why this happens would be very helpful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's simple.

Would you rather spend an evening:

a. ****ing a hot chick until neither of you can feel your legs anymore; or
b. chatting to your long-time female friend aboutwhat she did at work that day.

Even though 90% never admit, girls like sex just as much as guys so if they have choose to spend time with a DJ who will shag them senseless, or a friend who they can talk to, they will choose the DJ 90% of the time.
 

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I'm starting to get the idea that having sex with a chick is a very important way to keep her around lol
 

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Vice said:
I'm starting to get the idea that having sex with a chick is a very important way to keep her around lol
as well as a very important reason to keep her around! :whistle:
 
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