"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its really amazing the difference in setting a meeting with a young girl compared to a woman

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Master Don Juan
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Dont know hows your situation but where I am now we basically got a long lockdown, all my trips and activities have been postponed especially after most lines and airports in Europe are basically not working.

So first thing I noticed was the impressive increase in tinder matches, never had so many that I even tough they were bots and scams while in fact they were not...women are simpy stuck at home, no happy hours or socializing therefore they have been doing the same thing Im doing.

Now the difference, girls in their early to mid 20s wanted to see many pictures of me any possible angle, moving from tinder to whatsapp required work and patience as much as getting their phone number to begin with, dates are planned but it doesnt really seem they are reliable.

Now late 20s early 30s (I dont do anything older than that so cant tell), they are willing to meet asap and some of them even suggested to meet themselves, cant really tell if they are starved for company or for d1ck but the previous months NO ONE no matter the age group made it so easy as now.

First date with a 28 yrs old one is tomorrow at the park (many bar/pubs/restaurants are still closed and I dont trust to go there), will see how the logistic works then plan according with the others.

Will report later but Im pretty sure I can get a first date bang.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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