"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's really about you

SmooveMooves

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Make your dates about you. Trust me it works much better than trying to prove you are high value. Flip the script, she should be proving to YOU she's worth your time, not the other way around. You don't have to be a díck about it, just let her prove she's worth something. If you're at dinner and she's boring, tease her, "You don't have much to say do you? You must be one of those silent killer types." Make her work.

Don't allow her the satisfaction of using her pūssy permit she's already been using to glide through her whole life. A vagina is not all that's required to have your time and attention. Once you put all the pressure on her-----where it should be-----that's when the fun comes in. In the old days we called this Amused Mastery.

Amused Mastery is when you completely disregard whether she may see something as amusing or funny and begin to do things solely for your amusement. This may sound like a díck move but women will follow your lead. As long as your having fun, she will be having fun and if she's not, fūck her, who wants a boring chick like that. (Joke) Like what was mentioned in another thread, your goal should be to have fun, the pūssy comes secondary.

Earlier this week I spent the better half of a date comparing the chick to various rappers. She had no idea who they were but I was almost in tears telling her she looked like J Cole. She texted me that night saying "fūck you lol" She must've looked up who J Cole was. I setup a meet up and smashed soon after

In short

~Dates are about YOU

~Have fun

Too many guys make Poon the end all be all. Even if you have a bad date it should be a funny story you can go home and tell your bros. Not get depressed and mental mastubate until you shoot jizz all over you cpu screen on Sosuave.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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