"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's proven, girls never want to be friends!

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I go to my African American Studies class focused on my work and not trying pick up anyone really. The girls that i were attracted too had way too many guyfriends and boyfriends so I decided to leave them alone and the other ones aren't really that attractive to me. I'm friendly to all the girls that flirt with me in class, but I don't really ask for their numbes or stuff like that. (Just trying to keep it friendly like I would with any other class member!) Then after a few weeks they completely stop talking to me.

To people who say girls make great friends are bull****ing! Girls never want to be friends with someone that they're attracted to period! They either want BF's or emotional tampons for the attention! (Guys you don't settle yourself into this BS either.):D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls never want to be friends with someone that they're attracted to period
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Congrats Toby, you figured out of the truisms that apply to both sexes. Neither sex can truely be friends with someone they're very much attracted too.

Either they both like each and don't know it until later, or one likes the other that way.
 
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Originally posted by tobby

To people who say girls make great friends are bull****ing! Girls never want to be friends with someone that they're attracted to period! They either want BF's or emotional tampons for the attention! (Guys you don't settle yourself into this BS either.):D
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you're absolutely right tobby. Experience from my afc days to now...all i can say is if a girl is attracted to you, her IL in you will be high. That means she takes the time to learn more about you and come to you for advice. Advice = seeking your validation (not on guy problems, but particular things they know the answer to but pretend like they dont).

If a girl doesnt want to be your friend (or you to be her ugly girlfriend). She wont spill her guy problems to you or ***** about stuff. And they will try their best to impress you and allow you to be leader. Altho they may categorize you as a friend and call you a friend, you know and they know that they secretly want you.
Call it attention seeking if you will, but naturally all girls want attention from someone they admire, particularly the guy they like.

As long as you're natural and dont act like a girl (or gay), i see no problem become friends with them.

that's why such things as FWB exist (whether it may be cuddling/(french)kissing/sex), if they werent attracted to you they wouldnt even agree to it!

Girls are masters at acting. each girl have their own definition of 'friend'
 
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I guess you can't without ****ing eachother read my posts.these *****es think i'm a hoe or some****.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Friends = One is interested - second is not.
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I agree, often in these kind of friendships. There's normally 1 person that has the hidden agenda and secretly wants to get into your pants.

I've also come to a conclusion that if a girl categorizes you into a friend (as i described above). Usually it's to keep you around in her life, they dont want to feel dumb or rejected if they make a move...so often they'll stick around and be your friend and wait for the moment when the guy feels its time to make a move.
 
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Frienship is a consolation prize for one of the members of the opposite sex.
 
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