Its official, UPS is on its way..

[synergy1]

...back with my V card. Note: The standard disclaimer applies as I am pretty drunk writing this post.

Long story short is that I moved to VA six months ago and have helped started a company. On that front things have gone well, but since leaving my hometown I have been unable to pull any women at my new locale. Nothing can be blamed at this point except myself. On one hand its fine, women aren't anything in life but on the other its getting frustrating that I can't wheel anything down here. While the time period isn't insurmountably long, the 6 month marker is making me step back and really reassess my progress in this regard (or lack thereof). Is it the environment? Is it me, or a combination of both?

Again I can't complain about life. Best shape I have been in years, working on something I love and making progress, and even learning a lot about how business and politics work on a larger scale. Realistically life is awesome! What gets me is being unable to pull anything, even if I know they are interested. Maybe its just me getting into my own head, maybe it is something else. In any case, its discouraging and I need some rallying support from the community to right the ship and start making some real progress. I guess the question out of this is the following: how does one break a stupid slump like this? Has anyone been in similar situations?

Appreciate folks reading my very drunken rant. Look forward to the replies in the AM! ( me two years about would be getting laid by one of two chicks who was interested right now, and this post wouldn't exist).

 

[Joe Stud]

Go drinking with your business associates, or gym friends. network with others if possible. It will soon snowball. When you are out, smile & be friendly, but confident. Make sure you dress well, smell good, etc.

Slumps are part of life, just accept it and keep going. Sometimes a bad slump is hell. But you know what they say about that right? "when you're goin through hell..... keep goin"!

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

I hate to give the standard answer but here goes:

Enjoy your time away from women. Is it a coincidence that you've been doing so good in all other aspects without a woman to interfere or distract?

I'd say, since you've already got six months, finish up a the year and focus solely on you and business. Go out and stay social but lose all willful intent to meet girls. At the end of the the year you can reassess the situation.

But maybe this is totally wrong. Are you just looking for a piece or something more substantial like a gf/fb?

 

[synergy1]

...and one hour after posting this, the chick I was trying to game came into my room and that was that. Freshly turned 20 years old too, largest age difference for me to date.

But maybe this is totally wrong. Are you just looking for a piece or something more substantial like a gf/fb?]

I am not looking for g/f material right now, simply not enough time or energy to commit to something like that. Just looking for some fun. Have been doing what joe stud said which is go out and start to make new friends. That angle has not been successful before last night, but who can complain when their slump is broken 60 minutes after initial posting!

cheers

 

[Nutz]

So, what you really want is a free hooker. Nothing wrong with that I guess. Just go to clubs/bars a little late and scoop up the sluts that didn't pull earlier in the night.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

How is it a 'free hooker?' I'm assuming you meant this in a bad way, so correct me if I'm wrong.

I personally don't care about having a GF right now either. I just want to lay girls. That makes them hookers? Its funny how we complain bout anti-slut defense and girls not giving it up, when its WE who've brainwashed them to be like this in the first place . .

 

[Nutz]

Didn't mean it in a bad way, you just want to pump & dump a la one night stands. If that's what you're interested in then you need to groom your game in that direction. There's plenty of women who are only interested in c0ck hopping their 20s away, so it might as well be with you, right?

 

[synergy1]

Didn't mean it in a bad way, you just want to pump & dump a la one night stands. If that's what you're interested in then you need to groom your game in that direction. There's plenty of women who are only interested in c0ck hopping their 20s away, so it might as well be with you, right?

Not necessarily ONS, but not necessarily relationships. The reason I was questioning my game is because I thought I had one wheeled in and it didn't seem to be the case at the time of the first posting. It was more a question about a slump in my game than to try and learn how to more effectively do the ONS thing.

Either way it worked out. My game wasn't as crappy as I thought, and the drunk post mostly made sense save a few misuse of words. FWIW I was still a little tipsy in the AM!

bring on the work week!