"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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its not that i feel its too late

OddManOut85

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its that i feel why didnt i change or try to change sooner? anyone else feel this way?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OddManOut85

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yeah.had i found this site 4,5 years ago,things could be different now.
 

DJ4Life

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i found this site when i was 15, now im 17 and really it doesn't make much of a difference to your life

ya sure you know all the exact ways of attracting hbs and date them and bang them, but i hardly consider this a big part of my life

but im just happy that after i found this site i dont take **** from girls anymore being a wuss, now i have the power to control them
 

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I'm glad I found this at an early age (14). Even though I often misunderstood a lot of what was said on these boards, I got results.
Now I'm sixteen and I've understood this attraction "game" a whole lot better. I started in a new school this Monday and everything is just great. I've gotten to know almost my entire grade and I'm now going to get acquainted with some of the older guys and girls. Damn, I can't believe this week has passed by so fast.

The good advice on this site is golden, it truly is. Unfortunately the bad ones stick out just as much, if not more. It's all about using common sense and applying what is useful to YOU.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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