Its Not That Easy!

[slickaz]

this past week i had a pretty fun experience that you all know about.

i got snapped with another plate by a jealous exclusivity wanting plate.

i have been snapped before by girls ive been seeing with other girls. but its never really come to a big issue because most girls then knew i was seeing others.

but...sometimes i see you guys talking about..

see one girl..then see another 4..and have 3 fukbuddies..and 2 babymamas and 1 milf and bone the hot latin house maid..

im not saying im a certified DJ or a player or whatever..i can be humble at times like this and say ive had my fair share of women but im probably not looking at this the right way BUT..

women nowadays are clever, they know the mechanics of relationships now.
they have the freedom to call you out on your other women..

they already think and assume that all men cheat and all men have atleast 10 other girls, and if not they assume you're out there every thursday and weekends pickin up women..

and so this for a normal guy becomes hard because i have four plates..2 know we are not exclusive..one is warming up to the stage of asking me to be esclusive (shes very selfish with me) and the last is surprised we arent exclusive by mutual understanding that we've banged...alot.

so new guys, When you see things like "keep her, and get other plates" or "Next her and find other hot women" dont assume that its as easy as it sounds...

more importantly the advice here should conform to, get yourself sorted, by getting your confidence back..then go out and meet and network and then get yourself one girl..then maybe another..but sometime there has to be a stop the number of women you can keep in your stable..


any words of wisdom on my perspective??
out

 

[Big B]

First and foremost you must be sure that you want to spin multiple plates. If you are going to spin plates you should be ready to pay a price if you get caught and were not honest from the word go. Just part of the game. Second of all don't get plates and take them all to your favorite spot to hang. If they have a good time and want to see you again they might frequent that place just for the chance to run into you again. Then your chances increase dramatically of getting a plate broken.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Let them know that youre not looking for a gf or that you still talk to other girls.