"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's not how much you make, it's how much you spend!

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Where the money goes? Into smoke pipe!

I finally, after two years of work, began writing down into excel spread sheet my income. That was last month. It turns out I make good money. Only problem is that I never have any money. I began thinking where my money goes. Just a small calculation, every day I buy water and cigarettes, just in a month it is more than 100 bucks. And I for some reason find it expensive to buy an electric kettle and drink tea and coffee. Now, from this day on I am writing into another spread sheet all my expenses, so that I could see where I can save money.

Fvck boyz, I spend too much!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To be fair, it's how much you make AND how much you spend. I kept myself to a reasonable lifestyle for years so I could build up my income streams. I could have blown all that extra money and spent it on trivial things. Instead I "paid myself first" and all that stuff. But how much you make is still important, because some people only make enough to get by. You have to have some disposable income if you want to save or invest. Lowering your cost of living is one thing to look into, but some people are living at the bottom already.
 

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Always save or invest at least 10% of your income. Pay yourself first. Spend less that what you make. That isn't always easy to do if you earn a modest income. You can always adjust the formula to suit your income. The point is to save or invest something. The beauty of compounding will reward you in the future.
 

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I realized, at that recently, that small things you buy -- a drink, cigarettes, hot dog -- compound with time and eat up a major portion of your income if you do it daily. I pay as much money for small things as much as I pay for my office, well at least it appears that way with extrapolation, I have no real data yet. I can save by buying an electric kettle, and bringing food from home, not drinking beer, and smoking less expensive brand cigarettes. I have a house which I don't live in, I can move into it and stop renting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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