"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's Not Hard To Get Sex From Women

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SirFratserlot

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Lol no. Aqcuiring sex with women is like one of the hardest things in the world if youre not one of those lucky 10 percenters.
 

Eternal_water

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Well I've never managed it.

The clip basically says be confident and approach, which isn't so helpful.
 

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Jesus stop being so negative , not you Op , the other two posters. It isn't hard, clearly you two have issues that you need to sort out before you can obtain women. Relax, be confident and open your damn mouth and that's all it takes.

There is no science to it, its simple. Don't get caught up in over complicating something so simple.
 

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the OP is fullof sh!t because he is trying to get more views for his fagg-vids.
BUT BUT, he is right on one account. getting laid is a piece of cake.

oh but ofc a giant walrus stuffing his face with donuts wouldn't know that now would they?

playing COD in his parents basement his biggest worry in the world being that the next avengers won't be loyal to the comics and that WOW has introduced some glyphs which cause minor interference with his online-empire.

fapping himself to sleep thinking about lucy, who friendzoned him a long time ago,a girl who is probably fvcking a jock ,
getting jizz in her nice little as$, while her "friend" sits in his basement playing COD with 10 year olds,as he shouts "i fvck yo mama" in the chatroom
he is also wondering why getting laid is like rocket science.

our fatty then goes to the kitchen for some murican-water (coca cola),and as he drinks a 2L bottle he forgets about getting laid
only to go back to finding that rare item, promised to bring a sexy armor for his female avatar.

if what i wrote is making you cry , then grow sacs and find a goal
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you aren't horrifically deformed and aren't socially retarded but you still can't get laid you aren't trying hard enough.
 

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JoeMarron said:
If you aren't horrifically deformed and aren't socially retarded but you still can't get laid you aren't trying hard enough.
I guess you are right, I really don't approach girls that much. Girls approach me sometimes but it doesn't lead anywhere

+1 rep
 

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get sex is not hard getting good sex from a good woman, now that is the hard part.
 

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A lot of it is how hard you try and what social circles you run with. If you know 350 people and 340 of them are male, guess what? Thou art not getting laid.

As well as if you don't try, nothing will show up at your door (and a cute Jahovy Witness chick looking to convert you doesn't count).

Social retardation is also a factor. You could be El Don Juan De Coolio with your mom, but if you're a total clam when you see a hot girl in front of you, you're not getting her number.

Go out into the world and get involved in something...anything...that requires contact with people. The mental transformation you will undergo will be priceless.
 

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Agree with Vlad there. Gotta get out and just do it if you want it. Don't go after women because you feel you must or to show off, do it because you want to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal_water

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switch said:
if what i wrote is making you cry , then grow sacs and find a goal
That wasn't actually relevant to me, I do cardio excercise once a week, weight lifting in the gym once a week and play sports twice a week and am on a healthy diet (im not on a diet but you know what I mean)

I'm actually quite well toned (if not that big)

I haven't played computer games in years either.

I do tecnically still live at home though but that did not make me cry.

Also not fapping myself to sleep, if you check the no fap thread in "anything else" you will see that over fapping is not an issue (haven't fapped in 21 days)

No the problem is concerning cold approaching I literally have no idea what to say so the conversation would be dead after "hi"

^^^^^That is the reason I am still a virgin.
 

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Still haven't accomplished that, but it seems like talking with women is getting easier as time goes by and I learn not to give a ****
 

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Lol yall act like its so easy. 99% of the girls I meet shut me down upon looking at me. You need a solid social group here in the states to meet girls as well. Most of these social groups are cemented from high school. A guy mentioned earlier that every person here has his own island and very few are welcomed kn that island.
 

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switch said:
the OP is fullof sh!t because he is trying to get more views for his fagg-vids.
BUT BUT, he is right on one account. getting laid is a piece of cake.

oh but ofc a giant walrus stuffing his face with donuts wouldn't know that now would they?

playing COD in his parents basement his biggest worry in the world being that the next avengers won't be loyal to the comics and that WOW has introduced some glyphs which cause minor interference with his online-empire.

fapping himself to sleep thinking about lucy, who friendzoned him a long time ago,a girl who is probably fvcking a jock ,
getting jizz in her nice little as$, while her "friend" sits in his basement playing COD with 10 year olds,as he shouts "i fvck yo mama" in the chatroom
he is also wondering why getting laid is like rocket science.

our fatty then goes to the kitchen for some murican-water (coca cola),and as he drinks a 2L bottle he forgets about getting laid
only to go back to finding that rare item, promised to bring a sexy armor for his female avatar.

if what i wrote is making you cry , then grow sacs and find a goal
this actually sounds pretty cool
 

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If getting sex from women was as easy as some claim then this website would not exist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I notice that a majority of the posters are in their mid-low 20's. Well no fvcking sh!t it's not hard to get sex at that age! Wait until your dating pool becomes 28-35, divorced, separated, bitter towards men, 4 little b@stard kids, about 20lbs overweight, saggy t!ts, and stretch marks all over the place but yet they think they deserve the world and only the top men are good enough for them. Hell, I was getting sex all the time from 15-26 and then all of a sudden it became Godd@mn HARD. you kids even have it easier today then us 30,40,50 years olds did in our time when we were 18-25. Girls your age will throw it at a tree if the tree could talk. If you're between the ages of 18-25 and aren't getting laid now, it ain't gonna get any easier trust me!
 

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SirFratserlot said:
I'm 20 and I can't get shvt here

All you basically have to do is ask when you're that age in this day and time. Trust me!
 

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Eternal_water said:
If getting sex from women was as easy as some claim then this website would not exist.
this site is not only about getting sex, hey I had sex before finding this forum.

read all the info and think if here is just to get laid, maybe that is your problem, you are so focused on getting laid you are looking a like a creep, even though I know if a girl says you are creep its because she don't like you, if was teh guy she likes doing that, oh that is not creep....,
 

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Eternal_water said:
If getting sex from women was as easy as some claim then this website would not exist.
Actually, getting sex from average women is indeed very easy. Getting sex from HB's is less so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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