"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's Not About The Bike: My Journal Back To Life

Enduro

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Okay, so my coach advised me to keep a regular diary of my eating and training habits, so rather than writing it in a notebook I decided to write it up here. Questions and comments are welcome. This is, afterall, a bit different than what most others do here as far as fitness goes.

6AM

Got on the bike for a 30 mile training ride. The morning course is a very hilly one - one of the last hills is about 400 meters at 13% -so my legs always feel alive when I'm done. No real problems today, but it was cold. Damned cold. 27 degrees out. Average speed: 23 miles per hour. Ate a powerbar and during the ride and drank a bottle of gatorade.

Most of my rides are done on an Aegis road bike. My final ride of the day was not, however.

Recently I purchased a Kestrel KM40 TT/Triathalon bike. I did a 30.5 mile training ride with that at 4PM. The only interesting that that happened was that my Oakleys fogged up at one point and I almost got hit by a car. Oh well. You win some and you lose some!

Average speed: 27 miles per hour.

Had a shake consisting of the following ingredients after the TT ride:

plain non fat yogurt
skim milk
banana
pineapple chunks
ice cubes

I'll be more specific regarding meals, amounts etc. tomorrow.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reto

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Just curious. What are you training for? Race? Overall fitness?
 

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No. I use to race Mountain bikes in the late 80's when no one else did. Then the kids graduated from BMX and started kicking @ss! LOL...

Now it's just recreation. I run (sort of), hike and mostly lift weights.

Ever do any extreme endurance races? Like 24 hours of XXX ?? I've done one of the High Tec races and a local one...
 

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I've won a 127 mile road race between myself and 11 other cyclist friends of mine. Stretched through Connecticut and Massachussetts. I averaged 24 mph and it was easily the most difficult thing I've ever done. I was 1'21" faster than the second place rider.

Other than that, I do some smaller Cat 2 races locally. I've done a few smaller triathlons as well. Adventure racing sounds like fun but I haven't tried that yet.

Back to work!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Enduro

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Rest day.

Oatmeal, cheerios, and a banana for breakfast. One serving each.

Snack: banana and fat free yogurt.

Grilled chicken breast and three cups of rice for lunch.

Snack: fruit shake consisting of six strawberries, one banana, two peach wedges, one cup of water and three ice cubes.

Turkey sandwich on whole wheat bread with baked beans for dinner.

Snack later: 1 cup cottage cheese with pineapple.
 
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