"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

it's NO crime to be in US illegally.

Thread starter prison/con.net
Start date Aug 11, 2015

prison/con.net

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Aug 11, 2015

not even a misdemeanor. Make it a felony and the punishment a horsehipping, and 5 million + aliens would go HOME. Make hiring one a horsewhipping offense, and 10 million more would be out of a job and have to go home. Plenty of volunteers to swing the whips, so very, very low cost to implement this. plenty of volunteers to guard them, shoot them if they try to flee, etc.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.