"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its my x gf's.... should i...

JulioJose

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so its been like almost 5 months since our break up.
havent communicate with her since then.

its my x gf's birthday tomorrow should i greet her?
The thing is she got a new bf now. well actually, the next day we broke up she already have a bf. Plus she still got some stuff in my house. And she didnt greet me at my birthday last month.

I know if an AFC question, i just need some input guys..

Thanks....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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This chick seems like a giant piece of garbage.

Don't give her anything.
 

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Don't do it man, she forgot YOUR birthday, so return the favor.

And throw her **** away, or sell it on E bay and buy yourself something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JulioJose

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KontrollerX said:
This chick seems like a giant piece of garbage.
Don't give her anything.
she really is.
I dont need her stuff.



thatguyjamalx said:
Don't do it man, she forgot YOUR birthday, so return the favor.

And throw her **** away, or sell it on E bay and buy yourself something.

actually i dont think she forgot it. coz her officemate w/c is a friends of ours greeted me.

It sucks, bigtime to be replaced by 1 day after a 5 years relationship.
What a fukking cheater bitzh. a betraying piece of shiiit.
 

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I fully support having some fun in her friend. This Byotch hurt you bad, forgot all about you and hooked up with the guy she's been eyeing for awhile. She obviously didn't care that much about you toward the end of the LTR so now it is time to get out there, bang her friend for vengeance (and some fun) and meet all those girls you told yourself you couldn't have because you were in a LTR.
 
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