Its more about what u say

[reza]

i have been reading the posts in this forum for more than a year and i should confess it has helped me alot , any one who decides to change will find the tools to do so.
anyways now i have no problem aprouching any one i want , now i cant even see how the other way would be like . i can ask any girl i want . so i got no problem there . but out of every 10 offers i get 9 no , well u might say its because of my looks , but i look good and i am hand some 6.2 hight and i work out .
i dont know what the problem is , do i have too much self confidence ? is it the way i talk or what ?

i know there is not much guys can say , but i needed to open up

 

[jiro77]

Congratulations on being able to approach, that is half the battle. What do you talk about? Do you use humor? How about eye contact? Do you smile at them?

Here is a link about how to conversate.....

http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php?action=conversation#7

 

[reza]

THanks dude

From the moment u aprouch them its like a count down to come out of the stranger zone and if u couldnt make it in time u r out

 

[chicksrock]

Originally posted by reza
THanks dude

From the moment u aprouch them its like a count down to come out of the stranger zone and if u couldnt make it in time u r out

Just nail those initial few moments..
make the target thing you are something special and got your head screwed on right...and also project funny cool and fun....
yes do all the above at once...
and no ways will HB's shoot you down as much

 

[biker_gixxer]

There are other factors that can be causing this. Here a are a few that I can think of.

1. has a husband
2. has a boyfriend
3. she's in a bad mood (PMS...watch out for this one, lol)
4. not interested in meeting anyone
5. lesbo

It's not necessarily you. Hell, the fact that you even approach these women puts you a step above those guys to chicken $hit to do so.