"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's like back and forth with this one

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I went out with a girl a few weeks back. We went back to her place afterwards, I put the moves on her, but she refused, citing that "she didn't feel comfortable yet". So I stopped talking to her. I cut her off completly until she showed som respect to me and was ready.

She starts talking to me again on the phone and in person. We go out on a date again, but she wouldn't even kiss me at the end. She told me to talk to her on AIM later as I dropped her off at her house (it was the first time she gave me her AIM).

I'm pissed and not sure what to do. Should I cut her off completly and stop talking to her? Should I try to hold her hand the next time we are out? Or should I tell her that "I don't need anymore friends, I have too many, show some respect and be comfortable with me". Not sure what to do here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would get rid of her. If you ain't got the patients to loosen her up. Find another girl who puts out.
 
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How old are you guys? If she's giving your her AIM, it reminds me of something a 14 year old would do. If you're over the age of 18, I suggest you try to find another prospect, but not necessarily eliminate her. Think of her as more of a "side project"
 
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