"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its just hard trying to figure this out its racking my brain.

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To her telling me about her ex basically wasn't great and found out lied down the road was with him under a year n stuff and Im great guy and everything I wasn't being exciting but I was there for her and good to her etc.. and she dismissing me its hard for me to understand because I never lied to her or hurt her or anything she was just saying these things like I didn't want family or have a dog I said just not right now I do down the road and saying she felt like I just wanted sex last time I saw her and saying she didn't like when I said not sure about taking her to airport n stuff. She was the one acting weird last week we were together and not being herself.

I just don't understand how she could love a guy who wasn't real and wanna get rid of me after 3 months when I know I was a decent dude and she just basically want to toss me side of road and pretty much blow me off.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if the girl likes you shes gonna like you so dinner and movie but if she has so hypergamy then things will hard on you for sure so why not just sex all night to happy and leave it at this maybe on prostitute or just low quality on girl to you all i say is bad girl good riddance and look forward not back all the time and if she rid for three months then good riddance on her all the time and all lie is never the truth women tell every single time maybe take her to bridge on date and if jump down then follow her to a better place away from suave forum?
 
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yeah it just angers me but I want to not look back anymore after today or think about her and I need to meet bunch of women, she just made me feel good and trust her and she did this crap it pissed me off. o well
 
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