"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its her birthday, dammit.

imnexthere

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So have been sort of seeing this girl for a few months. Well not exactly seeing because she lives way away so it was really just the night we met, one date and a lot of phone /AIM calls. Personally, I dont take it that serious but she definately does. She seems very hung up on me and I feel a bit bad that lately I haven't been a great guy.

She told me out of nowhere that her b-day on the 14th (obvioulsy cause she wants something) and Ill see her briefly on tues. Do I get her a gift or no? Im leaning towards not but if I do I need suggestions for something small, cheap that would work well. Im not the type to break the bank for a girl I havent been with that long.

By the way, do not suggest jewelry. She is seriously wealthy and loves Tiffany's. Im not spending anywhere near that if I get her something at all so It needs to be something else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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A birthday card. Write something nice in it. Those are my personal favorites. I prefer the cards to the presents.

Lik
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Porky

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The best gift I ever got was a pair of used panties. Give her a pair of used boxers, it can't fail.
 

Axe

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Jesus christ, just take her out some where. A gift doesn't have to be an object.
 
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