“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's Friday again. Taking action or not?

Warrior74

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My plans.

I'm waiting for some flyers for my street team. We are going out to hit up the clubs and bars with promo materials and then it's out for drinks afterwards. Tomorrow, I'm house shopping and meeting some friends out for drinks. Sunday, taking my father to a pro football game. We got some great seats from a friend who's a season ticket holder.

I plan to dress fresh all weekend, have my house and car clean. And to speak to as many hot women as I can. I plan on having fun. I plan on having a positive great attitude and to be outgoing. I'd like to get at least 2 or 3 numbers this weekend.

How about you? What are you plans and goals for the weekend?
 

muscleman

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Got a quick date tonight then either bringing her back to my place or going out with my friends (bars/clubs) later on ... maybe both. Tomorrow night probably just going out with friends (bars/clubs) ... Sunday tentative evening date, possibly a date on Monday evening. In-between all this I gotta pack for my vacation to L.A. .... now there's gonna be some hotties!
 

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I understand what you're trying to do here and it's a good idea. I think the format is wrong though. Warrior, what you should do, is find the crew on this forum that are committed to taking action to concretely improve their lives, rather than whining, and replace this "friday" thread with an actual pact. You should make individual threads to journal personal progress, and to unsparingly give each other a kick in the ass if somebody isn't trying. I could list off the **** I'm doing the weekend, but yesterday I was exhausted and goofed off on the net instead of going out to practice breaking or contact a local DJ (you know... a dude who plays records) to help me promote a show I organized for later this month. Now I have to play catch up. Peer pressure can be a very positive force -- that's what you're trying to do, right? But I think you need more.

I've done this with my brother (who is a younger guy who needs help, in passing) over the phone and its a good thing. It works well.

My weekend: I am dating a girl who I don't intend a serious relationship with, because I like the sex and am too lazy/busy to bother dating more. We will probably hang out, I will bang her and then feel guilty because I like her and don't want her emotionally invested in me. She LJBF'd me after we ****ed a few times and I was like, "awesome!". Well that didn't last too long. I should probably get another girlfriend so:

1) She doesn't get the idea into her head I want a LTR
2) She understands I enjoy her company and can at least stand in solidarity with the next girl and not feel like it's anything personal when I don't commit.
3) She has a very good reason to explain to her friends why she broke up with me and won't make me sit through some boring speech trying to explain her feelings.

Women. Pff
 

Warrior74

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wait_out said:
I understand what you're trying to do here and it's a good idea. I think the format is wrong though. Warrior, what you should do, is find the crew on this forum that are committed to taking action to concretely improve their lives, rather than whining, and replace this "friday" thread with an actual pact. You should make individual threads to journal personal progress, and to unsparingly give each other a kick in the ass if somebody isn't trying. I could list off the **** I'm doing the weekend, but yesterday I was exhausted and goofed off on the net instead of going out to practice breaking or contact a local DJ (you know... a dude who plays records) to help me promote a show I organized for later this month. Now I have to play catch up. Peer pressure can be a very positive force -- that's what you're trying to do, right? But I think you need more.

I've done this with my brother (who is a younger guy who needs help, in passing) over the phone and its a good thing. It works well.
Thanks for the feedback man. Your idea sounds good. You know what they say, your really just talking to yourself on these forums. I'm trying to give myself a kick in the ass, to stop KJing so much and to get back out in the field. I got comfortable over the last year having two girls on my team, and now I'm down to .5 (one blew out, the other just has been too busy).

I just got a text from a friend of mine. Her and her girls are having a girls night and invited me and some fellas out for drinks later. So it looks like it's going to be a good night. Hope your weekend goes well. Good luck.
 

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- A beautiful burlesque dancer gave me her number last night. We're hanging out again on Sunday.

- Going to a ball tonight (Sat) where there are plenty of hot women. I'm about to hit the gym for my deadlift session, building up that aggression for some pimpin' & closin' later on!
 

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I still don't have friends here yet, and my room mates are busy, so it looks like a quiet night here. On the bright side, I managed to cart my ass over to the next town and play some puck while in the process get recruited for an ice team and a rugby team. I think I might join the rugby team since its in town, and a great way to get in shape. My goal now is to network and get a group of friends since weekends are very much dependent on others right now to make the plans. Not drinking tonight means hitting up the gym in the AM and getting **** done and possibly doing something tomorrow night. If we go out tomorrow night, maybe I can procure some field reports!
 

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Tonight blowed. took a nap after work, woke up late, everyone was either out or hooked up with a chic. Met up with the girls night out crew. Three fatties, still i went out and we had fun. Went to a busy nightspot, saw a few guys I knew. Had a few drinks. Hit on a couple of girls but no numbers. Ended up at this dive bar, passed on the skanks in there, trashy *****es. Just got home. Had fun regardless. later.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Had fun regardless
This sums up what the weekends should be about and basically life in general come to think about it.

I caught up with friends i'd not seen for a while and had a few drinks last night before i crack on with the never ending amount of Uni work i have to do. Going to go to a fireworks display tonight before going to a bar to watch Haye vs Valuev later on in the evening. Should be interesting.

@Warrior74 if you were thinking of taking this in a more serious situation similar to a weekend bootcamp or something along those lines then let me know as i'd be interested.

DC
 

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Decent field report here, but could have been better (as always). Had my date, it was going great after only one drink, she was going to come back to my place for a movie and then her friend calls and as she's following me on the road and says she forgot she was supposed to hang out with her. That definitely pissed me off, but we tentatively rescheduled for some later night, so that's still "spinning".

Soon as I got home me and my wing/roomie went sarging downtown, basically bar hopping the whole night. It was fun; we did a bunch of approaching and ran into a couple people we knew. I ended up with 4 numbers, gonna follow up tonight. One pair we sarged actually ended up coming back to our place after we hooked up again at the end of the night ... we had some drinks, popped in a movie and did some kino, but unfortunately it didn't go anywhere. My target wasn't that interested I don't think (from the get go), she was doing it more for her friend. My wing's target was definitely interested in him, but she wasn't that hot. I think the biggest issue we ran into was not isolating once we were back at our place. We need to work through the logistics of that one lol.

Anyway, fun ass night, time to chug that protein shake and go deadlift, then do it all over again tonight :rockon:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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squirrels said:
Stuck at home.

Suspended license + court-ordered abstinence from all alcohol = next time just take a cab.
Lol... Hope you get your license restated soon.
 
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