"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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its cold outside, and I need action date plan (second date)

mungro

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Hi all,

Next week sometime, I'm thinking about calling a prospective HB for a second date. The first date was a dinner date, and it went ok, but it was slight bit on the subdued side. But the conversation was good, she seemed interested so I have about a 50% chance she would see me again, and I'm willing to give her another shot too. But this time I'm definitely changing things up and choosing an action date.

Around here, the weather is getting cold. And I need help thinking up some action dates.

I have a couple ideas, with the thought in mind that I want to have a date this time where I can keep the blood pumping, and engage in increased kino (its hard to kino across a dining table).

I was thinking I could take her to a sporting event (basketball game). I was also thinking the best idea, especially for my personality is to go to a place like Dave and Busters, which for some of you who aren't familiar with it, is a place where you can eat at a restaurant, have drinks at a bar, and play pool and arcade games all in one large place...

Any other ideas and suggestions and tips for a successful second date would be appreciated as I want to escalate physical contact with this girl...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ScrewIt

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My best suggestion is skating and pool. That's whwat i did with th first few dates with this chick, and she's melting.

Basically any date that involves a lot of kino is great.
 

Swoop

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Another good idea is bowling. Usually bowling places has video games as well as pool, so you can do multiple things in one date.
 
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