"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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its cold outside, and I need action date plan (second date)

mungro

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Hi all,

Next week sometime, I'm thinking about calling a prospective HB for a second date. The first date was a dinner date, and it went ok, but it was slight bit on the subdued side. But the conversation was good, she seemed interested so I have about a 50% chance she would see me again, and I'm willing to give her another shot too. But this time I'm definitely changing things up and choosing an action date.

Around here, the weather is getting cold. And I need help thinking up some action dates.

I have a couple ideas, with the thought in mind that I want to have a date this time where I can keep the blood pumping, and engage in increased kino (its hard to kino across a dining table).

I was thinking I could take her to a sporting event (basketball game). I was also thinking the best idea, especially for my personality is to go to a place like Dave and Busters, which for some of you who aren't familiar with it, is a place where you can eat at a restaurant, have drinks at a bar, and play pool and arcade games all in one large place...

Any other ideas and suggestions and tips for a successful second date would be appreciated as I want to escalate physical contact with this girl...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ScrewIt

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My best suggestion is skating and pool. That's whwat i did with th first few dates with this chick, and she's melting.

Basically any date that involves a lot of kino is great.
 

Swoop

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Another good idea is bowling. Usually bowling places has video games as well as pool, so you can do multiple things in one date.
 
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