"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's Christmas Eve

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Rubato

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Stop writing posts on this website about become alpha, developing a personality, getting over an X, or what to do in X situation with Y girl.

It's Christmas Eve.

Go see your families. If you don't have a good relationship with them, try and build a bridge.

Go see your friends.

Do something. If not in the presence of the people you love, do it for yourself. We aren't afforded an unlimited number of periods in life like we get with the Christmas season. Religiosity aside, cultural and personal preferences aside, if you really can't find something better to do tonight and tomorrow than post on this website, it's probably indicative of the reason you're here.

You don't have to go to mass. You don't have to go to church. If you are severely estranged from family or can't reasonably get to see them, don't. The same with friends. But for God's sake, find a way to procure something meaningful from this. Even if you have no one else in the world to spend time with right now, there's always a hospital, nursing home, or shelter you could visit, and those people would be more than happy to see you.

So go, already! Go do something. If not for someone else, do it for yourself. Just leave this website alone for a bit.... it will still be here on Dec 26th!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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My family hasn't seen me in a while.

What can I do to show them that I've become alpha?
 

Sofomore

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LOL @ Mantis

Ive come down with strep throat. I've been sent to quarantine on the couch...

Merry XMas
 

floydb25

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Mantis Toboggan said:
My family hasn't seen me in a while.

What can I do to show them that I've become alpha?
Winner.
 
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