so this past week ive noticed that something wasnt right between me and my girl. whenever she said she'll call me she never does. i ask her to call at 8 or whatever and she doesnt call at all. i confronted her today and she said nothing was wrong, but then she said that she had a crush on this other guy. first she said it was just a crush and it didnt mean anything, then she went off saying mabye we should stop, she kept changing the point. i was getting upset(mad lil sad) because she kept saying different things, the thing that pissed me off was she said that she would never have a chance with him. which clearly means she wants him. i said that i wasnt gonna wait for her. shes really pissing me off, i got that feeling where you just want to punch something. what do you guys think i should do or say to her? please guys help me out here. i dont want it to end since i still like her. what am i gonna do????
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
its bugging me (help me out guys)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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1) Most solutions to these questions are simple
Just look at ur answer "She had a crush" BINGO !!!! Obviously, you havent made enough of an attraction using kino ect, and you havent kept the relationship stable thats why she has a crush,,, do u know how fuking bad that is, while ur waiting for her to callu at 8, she is thinking about this other guy naked....
IMO, you need to show that your not desperate and piss her off by talking to other girls, that way she will be more aggresive for you (can backfire) but you also need to make here feel 'special' and use kino more ect
Just look at ur answer "She had a crush" BINGO !!!! Obviously, you havent made enough of an attraction using kino ect, and you havent kept the relationship stable thats why she has a crush,,, do u know how fuking bad that is, while ur waiting for her to callu at 8, she is thinking about this other guy naked....
IMO, you need to show that your not desperate and piss her off by talking to other girls, that way she will be more aggresive for you (can backfire) but you also need to make here feel 'special' and use kino more ect
oh sh1t dude. the same exact thing happend to me this week. I wasnt; exactly sure what to do either. My girlfriend met another guy over the weekend and apparantly she thought he was hot. And she had a little crush for him. Of course , things probably feel awkward with u and ur girl now, dont they? Well, you know what I did? I nexted that b1tches azz!!!! and i told her i wanted it all or nothin and i havent talked to her any. everytime she looks at me , we just kinda stare at each other with sad looks on our face and i can tell she misses me. but she made the mistake of likin another guy and im gonna ignore her and i know shes gonna come crawlin back. they always do. dump her man. ignore her and shell come crawlin back and regret her mistake.
yeah me and a friend had a discussion about her today, we both agreed that my girl is ****in high on herself. one of my other friends said to me that she was "pretty hot" and when i told her that she replied with "im only pretty hot?" i wanted to smack her into her place right there. and now she thinks shes to good to talk to me on the phone and gets her sister to lie when i her sister tells me shes lying. its ****ing annoying man. im gonna talk to her tomorow and just tell her straight up to come back to earth
MacdaddyJr
Don Juan
Next this ***** right now!!!! WOuld you rather her break up with you instead! Do it, this wh*re is on her high horse and she needs to be kicked off, fvck her!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
tagalog proverb
"kung kayo, kayo. kung hindi, hindi."
literally, "if you were mean't for each other, then you are. if not, then not."
that simple.
"kung kayo, kayo. kung hindi, hindi."
literally, "if you were mean't for each other, then you are. if not, then not."
that simple.
k well its officially done with, still friends though. i got a party comin up friday night. so guess what i'll be doing. i still get that uneasy feeling and shes still in my head, i hate thinking about what they might do. but its done for now, time for fresh meat.