"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's best to be straight forward with girls about sex

ryannath

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This is a post from a female on another forum that I visit and she talks about being a man and being straight forward, and this is what she said, and I agree with it....

"I'm finding it difficult whihc is why im looking to find some! Believe it or not its not that easy to get sex as a woman - i admit that if i went out right now and asked 10 guys to **** me at least one would say yes but im looking for a LITTLE bit more than that. I dont want a relationship, just a friend i can have sex with.

I do get approached in random places like when im walking down the street and the other day in a book shop but it just feels weird being approached by randoms which is why i want a friend i can fuk.

Plus i need to find the guy attractive. Also its hard for me to make the first move as ive never really had to before. Damn fear of rejection! Why cant more men just be forward about sex and make things easy lol"

Btw, this girl is 20 and had a bf for 3 yrs and just broke up and doesn't want a relationship yet, she just wants a friend to fvck, and she hasn't had to approach guys, they always came to her...
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She is a hor!!!! Commonplace in today's world!!! What in sam hill does this hor think men apprach her for??? For conversation sake - mere banter??? Men don't need to say it - "it" is a given when we approach hors!!! She most likely is a less than desirable hor to think such!!!

A man should be straightforward with hors about sex not "girls"!!!
 

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"I'm finding it difficult whihc is why im looking to find some! Believe it or not its not that easy to get sex as a woman - i admit that if i went out right now and asked 10 guys to **** me at least one would say yes but im looking for a LITTLE bit more than that. I dont want a relationship, just a friend i can have sex with.

I do get approached in random places like when im walking down the street and the other day in a book shop but it just feels weird being approached by randoms which is why i want a friend i can fuk.

Plus i need to find the guy attractive. Also its hard for me to make the first move as ive never really had to before. Damn fear of rejection! Why cant more men just be forward about sex and make things easy lol"
of course it is best to be straight forward with women about sex. How do you think that I get women all the time. I am honest with my intentions and if something more serious develops. so be it.

People have been trained by hollywood and society not to be. It is BS and we should not be so scared of our masculinity and their feminity.

comic_relief
 

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Never listen to the banter of a chick who doesn't know what the hell she wants or understand what EXECTLY attracts her to Men.

dumb chick said:
i admit that if i went out right now and asked 10 guys to **** me at least one would say yes but im looking for a LITTLE bit more than that. I dont want a relationship, just a friend i can have sex with.
Ok first she says she is looking for more then sex then she just want a friend to have sex with?? If a guy was truly her friend she wouldn't have sex with him. All those fvck buddies relationships are still quasi-relationships where she finds the guy attractive and is not a conventional friendship by any means.

dumb chick said:
I do get approached in random places like when im walking down the street and the other day in a book shop but it just feels weird being approached by randoms which is why i want a friend i can fuk. Plus i need to find the guy attractive
All the men who did approach her on the street and she felt "wierd" about it was because they had a weak game. The so called "friend" she wants to fuk is just another man who has a bit of game and was buying his time, its that simple. My fellow DJ's don't let the label "friend" confuse you. Just like Chris Rock said " MEN DON'T HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS, THEY ARE JUST WOMEN WE HAVEN'T FVCKED YET!!"

dumb chick said:
Also its hard for me to make the first move as ive never really had to before. Damn fear of rejection! Why cant more men just be forward about sex and make things easy lol
Womenese Translation: Why is it that today's men have a weak game and I end up losing interest???

Once again it comes down to game. If you don't have game and you verbalise or act aggrassive and be forward about you wanting sex with her then you will fail misrably. If you however play it right becoming a challenge, being masculine and having the prize mentality, she will end up becoming putty in your hands and you can fvck her brains out.
 

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Yup

I've slept with all my hot female friends (not including mates GFs) and all I need to say was "we should have sex" at an opportune moment.

JJ
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jay Jay said:
I've slept with all my hot female friends (not including mates GFs) and all I need to say was "we should have sex" at an opportune moment.

JJ
Hah, same here, except I didn't even really need to say anything. Most of the time we just gave each other "the look" and it was ON.

I swear JJ, you're my brother from a different mother.
 

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I like your style Serialized3.

On squirting. This has been a holy grail me and a few mates have been hunting for. So far one of us has done it. W are not sure if it is every girls potential or if its just some girls...

May I ask, to get your girl to squirt did you hit the deep spot real hard?

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
I've slept with all my hot female friends (not including mates GFs) and all I need to say was "we should have sex" at an opportune moment.

JJ
Yea, except that's when she says "uh no we're friends, that would feel weird"
...we should have sex my ass lol
 

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All I did was stimulate her g-spot with my **** and fingers. She might have had a really sensitive puss if I could get it done with just my fingers, because I thought the g-spot was a little deeper than that, but IDK.
 

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a girl who is willing to have sex outside of a relationship is a hor... period... once a cheater always a cheater... and once a hor... always a hor.. i.e. down the road of 10 years marriege, she will fck a friend vs a stranger.. but thats still cheating... lol :) i.e. my take... of supporting someones comment she is a hor lol.

Keep in mind.. women say one thing and do another.. thats why women should not be allowd here and/or their posts from other sites.... just discard it..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You speak the truth, Truth. Forget about the female forums, ryannath. You're wasting your time.
 

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Serialized3 said:
All I did was stimulate her g-spot with my **** and fingers. She might have had a really sensitive puss if I could get it done with just my fingers, because I thought the g-spot was a little deeper than that, but IDK.
g spot is like 3 inches away from the opening. on the roof of her abdomin if she is lying on her back i think.
 
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