It's Been Over A Week

[guitaronfire411]

I'm DJing this one girl and I haven't seen/spoken to her since the Sunday before last. She gave me the digits and gave some high interest signals (see Women Primer thread -- in short, apologizing, big smiles, etc.).

I went for the number before building rapport. When I last phoned her, I asked her out and she said that she had soccer that night. BUT she did sort of counter-offer in saying that she wanted to talk to me at her work the next time I come in.

Should I phone her # and a) leave a message (not keen on this) or b) tell her that I'm still interested but I've been really busy lately?

Thanks in advance.

 

[Legend]

i would just call her and act like you did nothing wrong. If she says anything just say you had a lot of things going on. If a girl cant go a week without talking to you shes got problems.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Thanks for the reply.

She's seeing someone as well, but said that it "wasn't serious" two Saturdays ago.

Maybe it's my ego talking, but I get the impression that I'm the alpha male of us two.

 

[guitaronfire411]

****.

I think I messed up with this girl.

I went tonight and this was the convo

me: Hey, do you have a few minutes?

girl on phone: I'm on the phone (whiny voice)

me: Riight. Okay, I'll let you go. Good luck with your boyfriend.

*walks away*

Did I do the right thing, my fellow DJs? I feel like crap, but I'm sure I'll bounce back soon enough.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

Personally, Im no expert but I think she has lost interest. I say Move on