GoinDeep07
Don Juan
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It's been years since I been on here but I need some help again, thanks in advance. I am 44 years old and have been in a relationship for 8 years and the last 12 months decided it was not working out.
Anyhow last March (09) my GF and I were broke up and I am out at a bar after golfing with freinds. I am waiting for a beer when this gorgeous woman taps on my shoulder, introduces herself, hands me a business card and asks if I would like to meet for lunch sometime. Then I realized she used to wait on me at a restuarant a couple years ago. She (Jen) is now an event manager for a Major hotel she is 26 years old. I said sounds good I will be in touch. We meet for happy hour a couple weeks later it goes awesome, we really hit it off. She gives me her cell phone number. I send her a couple text and get no response over the next few weeks. I give up. What I didn't know then is I didn't have the correct number. I eventually get back with my ex but run into Jen on occassion throughout the summer and she is very freindly. I end up working with her to set up group rates with her hotel and my company. We have a very professinal relationship, also become freinds on Facebook.
This October (09) I happened to look at her contact info on my blackberry that I used to for texting her over the summer and noticed I had the wrong number. I send her an email simply saying "You crossed my mind how are things?" She responded entusistically said we need to get together for Happy hour again soon. I call her a week later, we meet for lunch, I tell her up fron that I am in a relationship but mentioned that I tried to get a hold of her over the summer and we laughed and she said next lunch is on her. The problem is I am still in a Relationship! She hints about doing things together but I never follow thru.
This Dec (09) I see her in a bar, she comes and talks to me, I dont trust myself so I tell her I am heading to another bar to meet freinds maybe I will see her later. Then I send her a work email and mention I will be in California for a small vacation. She sends me a freindly email when I get back "Happy hour anytime on me" then at the end of the email it says she is "going to this exclusive party in Vegas in January" and she "had to rubb it in a little because you get me jealus with all my trips, haha". I see on Facebook she is going with some guy. A few days later she drops a Holiday basket off at my office, we have nice conversation. I mention I have a meeting with Govermant officials next tuesday for an open forum. While at the meeting Jen walks in just before it starts and looks increadible, Although it is open to the public I have no idea what she is doing there. After the meeting I say hello, she politely says hello and keeps walking.
Dec final week, I finally made the decision to end my relationship. I also make the decision to meet Jen and see what is going on, is she interested in me, or did she just want me to be her client. I buy a nice bottle of wine, bring it to her work, we go sit by the fireplace. I am nervous as all hell I tell her I think she is gorgeous and there have been many times over the last few months I wanted to spend time with her but I couldn't because I am in a relationship. I ask her straight up if she is interested in me. She says "Yes" I ask her about the age difference she says "I am good with it..no worries". She asks about my relationship, I tell her I ended it. She said she is "seeing someone now" I tell her that probably best, I should just do my own thing anyhow, she quickly responds that "we could do dinner and talk about it." She also mentions that I am very nervous.
I send her an email a week later just saying I had alot on my plate and thats why I was so nervous and joked about it. She responded and said we need to get together soon. I moved in a new place so I mentioned she could come over for some wine and not to worry if she is seeing someone, we could just visit.....no pressure.
Where do I go from here? She is heading to LV with this other guy in 2 weeks, do I just let things go until after her trip? Do I continue to email her?
A little about myself, I am a succesfull manager in the community I employee about 140 employees. I am fortunate to get compensated well for the area. I am also serious about working out and eating right. I have had other women hit on me in their 20's but there is something about Jen that I can't shake.
Anyhow last March (09) my GF and I were broke up and I am out at a bar after golfing with freinds. I am waiting for a beer when this gorgeous woman taps on my shoulder, introduces herself, hands me a business card and asks if I would like to meet for lunch sometime. Then I realized she used to wait on me at a restuarant a couple years ago. She (Jen) is now an event manager for a Major hotel she is 26 years old. I said sounds good I will be in touch. We meet for happy hour a couple weeks later it goes awesome, we really hit it off. She gives me her cell phone number. I send her a couple text and get no response over the next few weeks. I give up. What I didn't know then is I didn't have the correct number. I eventually get back with my ex but run into Jen on occassion throughout the summer and she is very freindly. I end up working with her to set up group rates with her hotel and my company. We have a very professinal relationship, also become freinds on Facebook.
This October (09) I happened to look at her contact info on my blackberry that I used to for texting her over the summer and noticed I had the wrong number. I send her an email simply saying "You crossed my mind how are things?" She responded entusistically said we need to get together for Happy hour again soon. I call her a week later, we meet for lunch, I tell her up fron that I am in a relationship but mentioned that I tried to get a hold of her over the summer and we laughed and she said next lunch is on her. The problem is I am still in a Relationship! She hints about doing things together but I never follow thru.
This Dec (09) I see her in a bar, she comes and talks to me, I dont trust myself so I tell her I am heading to another bar to meet freinds maybe I will see her later. Then I send her a work email and mention I will be in California for a small vacation. She sends me a freindly email when I get back "Happy hour anytime on me" then at the end of the email it says she is "going to this exclusive party in Vegas in January" and she "had to rubb it in a little because you get me jealus with all my trips, haha". I see on Facebook she is going with some guy. A few days later she drops a Holiday basket off at my office, we have nice conversation. I mention I have a meeting with Govermant officials next tuesday for an open forum. While at the meeting Jen walks in just before it starts and looks increadible, Although it is open to the public I have no idea what she is doing there. After the meeting I say hello, she politely says hello and keeps walking.
Dec final week, I finally made the decision to end my relationship. I also make the decision to meet Jen and see what is going on, is she interested in me, or did she just want me to be her client. I buy a nice bottle of wine, bring it to her work, we go sit by the fireplace. I am nervous as all hell I tell her I think she is gorgeous and there have been many times over the last few months I wanted to spend time with her but I couldn't because I am in a relationship. I ask her straight up if she is interested in me. She says "Yes" I ask her about the age difference she says "I am good with it..no worries". She asks about my relationship, I tell her I ended it. She said she is "seeing someone now" I tell her that probably best, I should just do my own thing anyhow, she quickly responds that "we could do dinner and talk about it." She also mentions that I am very nervous.
I send her an email a week later just saying I had alot on my plate and thats why I was so nervous and joked about it. She responded and said we need to get together soon. I moved in a new place so I mentioned she could come over for some wine and not to worry if she is seeing someone, we could just visit.....no pressure.
Where do I go from here? She is heading to LV with this other guy in 2 weeks, do I just let things go until after her trip? Do I continue to email her?
A little about myself, I am a succesfull manager in the community I employee about 140 employees. I am fortunate to get compensated well for the area. I am also serious about working out and eating right. I have had other women hit on me in their 20's but there is something about Jen that I can't shake.
