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it's been 8 years since i've seen her...now what

confus4ever

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i'm going to be getting together with this chick i just met up again after 8 years have gone by. She used to have interest for me back in the day. but now i don't know if theres any left. It doesn't sound like shes with anybody now. Could there be some interest after 8 years? I abviously havn't lost any, but do women? Any thoughts on this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

RandomGuy

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Always assume she is interested in you and go on from there.

dont sweat it too much, just relax and let all these dj stuff you learned shine right through.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't assume anything, you could be setting yourself up. Go into it with no assumptions nor expectations. Just play each minute as it comes. Base your actions on HER actions. Stay on the defensive and listen AND watch her closely and act appropriately.
 

Reto

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She agreed to get together, didn't she?

Go for it...
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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