Its been 7 weeks..

[Drummer93]

Been seeing this girl for the past 7 weeks, a date once a week and shes been contacting me 80% of the time. We have had a couple fall outs where she would get jealous about other women I would be hanging out with then get defensive that she was not looking for a relationship at this time. I know she got out of a relationship 6 weeks ago and I learned to stop fast tracking it. 3 weeks ago she had informed me that things were moving too fast and that she was missing her ex boyfriend, I gave her space and told her to hit me up if it doesn't work out. The ex dropped the ball by being verbally abusive to her, I put her in the friendzone and she reached out to me when I was in town. We went back to seeing each other and things were good. I acted less of a boyfriend and more playful with her. A week ago she had her first orgasm from me, on friday she had four. We haven't had sex yet, she wont until shes in a relationship.. this is a first for me. Although she does others things for me and shes great at it.

Anyways, I stayed the night Friday night. Saturday morning I left and she was sad that I was leaving. She had a tailgating party to go to with her friends that night. She wanted to know when we were going to see each other and I told her we'll work something out (I don't set dates on a date). As I was driving home, she called me venting about her friends being late and I supported it then let her go so she can go hang out with her friends. She told me next time I stay the night she will be a better host lol. Saturday night she got wasted, I saw pictures on her facebook with her and some guys but I'm not going to think anything of it.

It's Monday, I haven't heard from her since Saturday morning (2 days). Do I continue to wait 5-7 days to reach out to her/wait for her to contact me then set a date? Or is the ball in my court?

Thank you gentlemen.

 

[gravityeyelids]

You don't say sh1t to her. You don't want to hear this, but she's sent up a number of red flags to the point that i wouldn't even bother with her. She sounds like a headache and you're in a casual relationship with her and not even getting laid out of it??

Theres already this much headache and you've only known her 7 weeks?

As soon as you start gaming other girls and have other options you won't even give a rats ass about this situation and it will be revealed that you can do much better.

 

[Drummer93]

You don't say sh1t to her. You don't want to hear this, but she's sent up a number of red flags to the point that i wouldn't even bother with her. She sounds like a headache and you're in a casual relationship with her and not even getting laid out of it??

Theres already this much headache and you've only known her 7 weeks?

As soon as you start gaming other girls and have other options you won't even give a rats ass about this situation and it will be revealed that you can do much better.

Shes young and no doubt she can cause a headache sometimes, most because she just got out of a relationship of four years. I've read books that women who are fresh out of a relationship will be hot and cold, that's why I have been seeing other women. Unfortunately shes the one I like the most.

 

[Trump]

- Been seeing this girl for the past 7 weeks, a date once a week and shes been contacting me 80% of the time.
- 3 weeks ago she had informed me that things were moving too fast and that she was missing her ex boyfriend
- We haven't had sex yet, she wont until shes in a relationship
- I put her in the friendzone

Bro I think she put you in the friendzone. 7 weeks and you haven't had sex yet? Are you kidding?

If you haven't had sex past the 3rd date, its over. She knows she can make your head spin and is laughing at you at the same time. The funny thing is you agreed to it and her terms.
You have to have SEX with the girl or have her spend money on you. Anything else is a lost cause.

Brutal.

 

[Drummer93]

It sucks I like the chick but I agree I think the ball is in her court and she's going to have to show signs of moving towards. Even though she called me after I left, I gotta let it be.

 

[Drummer93]

Bro I think she put you in the friendzone. 7 weeks and you haven't had sex yet? Are you kidding?

If you haven't had sex past the 3rd date, its over. She knows she can make your head spin and is laughing at you at the same time. The funny thing is you agreed to it and her terms.
You have to have SEX with the girl or have her spend money on you. Anything else is a lost cause.

Brutal.

She has went down on me and yes this is new for me as well cause most women sleep with me after the 2nd date however she's fresh out of a relationship and shes obviously not over this dude. She overthinks a lot and has potential, I wish she would just use it. The girl has taken me out for dinner lol.