It's astonishing how different gay bars/clubs are than straight bars/clubs

[bigdave17]

I was talking to my gay married couple friend and they tell me about their experiences at gay bars/clubs. They tell me that basically everybody there is looking to meet somebody. You go in and almost everybody is single and will be very receptive to you (assuming you're not ugly or fat, talking about a normal 7-8/10 guy like myself who is in great shape and looks good). It doesn't even matter what you say - you just say hi and everybody is super receptive. He said if you are decent looking and in good shape, even the best looking gay men there are usually quite receptive of your advances.


Meanwhile, the night scene for straight men - unless you're a 10-10/10 - is fukking atrocious. You generally have to go for 5s and 6s if you want to meet anybody. Any woman who is 7+ has a ***** shield so high, is only single maybe 10% of the time and doesn't even want to meet anybody


What causes this? Is it just the natural difference in men having a monstrous sex drive and women having zero real sex drive? Is it because any decent woman has 325825823052 suitors on tinder, social circle, her work, etc... to where she doesn't want to add to it?

 

[MrJack]

It’s because they are simply the minority in a world full of straight people.

Way harder to meet a gay person in everyday life than it is a straight person.

Therefore ALMOST the only place they CAN meet someone is a place where they all go at night so they’re all looking to meet someone

 

[bigdave17]

It’s because they are simply the minority in a world full of straight people.

Way harder to meet a gay person in everyday life than it is a straight person.

Therefore ALMOST the only place they CAN meet someone is a place where they all go at night so they’re all looking to meet someone

ahhh that makes a little more sense


What's funny is I could get a BF in my league (talking about a good looking and successful mid to late 20s male) in 30 minutes if I was gay. I can't get a GF in my league in my life depended on it... women outnumber gay men by a 10 - 1 ratio. That's just insane to think about

 

[IKO69]

Sounds like it would be more preferable for you

I don't mean to make fun but I don't see the point of this post. So gay guys are more forward...I can vouch for it as it has happened to me a couple of times, so ****ing what? How does that change the dynamic that typically exists between a man and a woman? It doesn't matter how forward and receptive gays are if you are a man who wants a woman.

 

[bigdave17]

Sounds like it would be more preferable for you

I don't mean to make fun but I don't see the point of this post. So gay guys are more forward...I can vouch for it as it has happened to me a couple of times, so ****ing what? How does that change the dynamic that typically exists between a man and a woman? It doesn't matter how forward and receptive gays are if you are a man who wants a woman.

What's funny is I could get a BF in my league (talking about a good looking and successful mid to late 20s male) in 30 minutes if I was gay. I can't get a GF in my league in my life depended on it... women outnumber gay men by a 10 - 1 ratio. That's just insane to think about

Think about how much harder it is as a straight male than any other demographic. Any woman who is female version of me (6.5 to 7.5 face with a great body, great income, smart, responsible, loyal, etc...) can get an awesome mate in 30 minutes. Any gay man who is gay version of me can get an awesome mate in 30 minutes. Dating for us is literally 50 million times harder than anybody else