"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So here it is. After NC with her since last saturday, this is what she sent me:

Hey Pintero :) Im so sorry it took me forever to write you back. I dont know what my problem was. We are really good friends, idk why i was treating you this way. im so sorry Pintero. I think I was upset with you but im not sure what, its werid, but I also feel like me talking to you and telling you I love you was wrong of me, well I do love you as a person you are an amazing person, but i think my guilt of hiding this from my boyfriend got to me. but i shouldnt have ignored you and im sorry. im sorry for hurting you. *hugs* I hope we can still be friends and I want you to be happy :)
talk to you later I hope you are having a good day :)




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*sigh of relief* it feels good to finally have my suspicions confirmed, but I still wish I could get her back. I mean, she had no hesitations in the beginning, but oh well. Anyone have any further advice before I move on with my life? I honestly don't know what to say to her, or if i'll even be able to hang out on that site anymore with this development. :/
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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She made it crystal clear that her only interest in you is friendship. Nothing more to say, really. Just accept it and move on. When people come back after NC - it does NOT mean their interest has raised. Many of them simply want to remain civil, and act as friendly as possible - while only being interested in friendship. Chances are, they simply feel guilty, and don't want you to be mad at them. Or, they want to be friends.
 
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floydb25 said:
She made it crystal clear that her only interest in you is friendship. Nothing more to say, really. Just accept it and move on.
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That's what I figured. Thanks.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Juan Don said:
dont say anything more to her ignore her move on.
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Yes this makes sense too. No more wasting time, right? Thanks again.
 
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