"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its all just a confidence issue

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Hi,

So I joined this forum a while back, and tried out the boot camp. Around Week 4, I kind of slacked off with it and ended up backing out shortly after. I was really disappointed in myself but I could never really get back in to it after I quit for a bit.

I don't think there's anything wrong with me physically. Here's a picture for reference:

http://img294.imageshack.us/content_round.php?page=done&l=img294/4382/191602.jpg&via=mupload

Not the best pic of me, but w/e

Anyways, confidence is something that just seems hard to achieve. No matter how many people tell me I look good, or how great a person I am, it just doesn't "click" with me where I believe it. I doubt there's a secret to confidence, but do you guys have any suggestions? Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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go to the gym.... you will see the changes yourself over time and will so be self-confident... (confidence comes from within....)

from what you said you seen a bit of a Quitter even when it gets slightly tough...there are NO quick fixes to this, its a gradual self-improvement that will prob take a LONG time....
 
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