"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its all just a confidence issue

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Hi,

So I joined this forum a while back, and tried out the boot camp. Around Week 4, I kind of slacked off with it and ended up backing out shortly after. I was really disappointed in myself but I could never really get back in to it after I quit for a bit.

I don't think there's anything wrong with me physically. Here's a picture for reference:

http://img294.imageshack.us/content_round.php?page=done&l=img294/4382/191602.jpg&via=mupload

Not the best pic of me, but w/e

Anyways, confidence is something that just seems hard to achieve. No matter how many people tell me I look good, or how great a person I am, it just doesn't "click" with me where I believe it. I doubt there's a secret to confidence, but do you guys have any suggestions? Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kingsam

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go to the gym.... you will see the changes yourself over time and will so be self-confident... (confidence comes from within....)

from what you said you seen a bit of a Quitter even when it gets slightly tough...there are NO quick fixes to this, its a gradual self-improvement that will prob take a LONG time....
 
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