It's all about the foreplay...

[Evil-Rom]

NOTE: I did not write any of these, I found these in a forum (not seduction based) and thought you guys would be interested. It was all written by a guy named "Me Clumsy". His wife must be very happy.

Women fake orgasms because men fake the preliminary action. You have to throw her against the wall, kiss her fast and wild, caress her everywhere except for the hot parts, making her wet in anticipation.

You see, when you want perfect fries you heat the oil. To tell when you should start, you throw a match in the pan and when it goes flying out of the pan, you know it is time to put the nice potatoes there. It is the same with sex. If she is not the one jumping on top of you or begging for you to go inside her, then she is not ready yet and you must carry on with the heating, so matter how hot YOU already are.

If you do this you never have to worry about her finding it boring in the middle of the action, because she will be too busy having orgasms.

Another thing: men rely too much on the visual and forget about the whole "keep the passion" thing. To keep a woman hot you must have that in mind at all times.

There is a reason why the chase is better than the catch. A girl biting her lips in anticipation, staring straight and deep into your eyes, is hotter than her gagging deeply on a ****. She also feels the same. If you hug and embrace her firmly, yet passionate, kiss or lick gently the tip of her ears, blow softly on her neck, all the while whispering how you think she is beautiful and hot, she will go nuts over you.

Take your time. She won't go away. Don't hurry up to the breasts or to the naughty parts, make her grab your hands and lead them there. Don't let her retribute your favors for a long time - allow for some quick, short bursts, then resume your caressing. She will go wild and will jump on you.

Remember, you want to reach the point where you will hear her moaning or screaming "Oh, **** me please, do it now, I can't take it anymore, I need you inside me NOW!". And when the sex actually starts, you don't drop everything you've just did. You have to squeeze her butt firmly, yet passionate, keep those fingers moving around her back, her ankles, her knees, quickly kissing and licking her anywhere you feel like doing it. Look into her eyes, whisper things in her ear, pull her hair gently, fold your hand in a claw-like shape and gently rub your fingernails over her back, and she will have so many orgasms she won't know what the hell happened.

In the future, even if you break up with her, she will never ever forget you. Believe me, I know.

Some other preliminary action tips: get her to lie down naked. If you have long hair, rub it slowly and gently on her back or near her chest (depending on whether she is lying on her back or her stomach), back and forth, never in a rush.

Lick her gently and slowly, starting on her heel/foot and coming all the way to her thighs. Skip the naughty parts, go all the way down to the heel/foot on the other leg. All of a sudden, rub your face/chin area on the back of her neck.

Throw in a more naughty move as she goes hotter - squeeze her breasts, slowly and firmly, then let them go for a while, even if she pulls your hands back there. After a while breath heavily near her vagina, letting go some hot air in that general direction. Even if she pulls your head towards the vagina don't do anything there yet, move your head up and lick the entire area around her navel slowly and gently, while keeping your hands busy in a claw-like shape, rubbing your fingernails softly on her thighs and shoulders.

After a while you can kiss and lick the area around her genitals, all the while blowing hot air out of your mouth. At this point she will be dripping wet if you kept your hands and fingers busy. Don't rush yourself though; make your fingers dance on her inner thighs, provoking her lust, but don't touch anything there yet - rub one finger or two gently near the entrance without actually touching it. She will probably pull your hand inside her but this is not the moment to do it. It's time to go down there.

Put your hands together as if to form an "A" and very gently rub her genitals with your thumbs in a circular pattern. As you complete each circle you can press a little harder. Now it is time to throw your tongue there. Don't touch the **** though, it is very sensitive, lick the area where your thumbs were. After a while you can rub and lick the **** in a very, very soft way. When you start with your oral session get your hands back to caressing her breasts, thighs and legs, now with a more firm grasp.

Depending on how well you perform this steps, she might jump on you before you reach the end of the process. If you still want to tease her ignore her for a while and carry on with the preliminaries; if you think she is ready to explode, go for it.

more technical tip: one thing that is often overlooked during sex is the mood of the partner. Your girl might be feeling like impersonating a ***** on that particular day even though she is usually quiet and shy, and vice-versa. Nothing ruins sex worse than someone totally out of synch with the partner. You don't want to shout "I'm gonna fill your **** with my seed" when things are not going wild, but rather whisper on her ear "I think you are so wonderful". If, however, she goes "YEAH, **** ME LIKE THE ***** I AM" then you are free to pump faster, harder and even smack her ass in a stronger-than-average manner.

Another very important thing is sex stamina. Some girls can go on and on and on even though they are having orgasms non-stop, whereas others must have a rest down there because things are now too sensitive and will start to hurt if you carry on.

If this is the case, this is your golden opportunity to make a difference. You see, after orgasming some girls usually let the guys carry on with the ****ing even when things start to get not very comfortable for them. If you are close to orgasming, say, under two minutes, then by all means go for it. If you are not, and you think there is a good chance you might end up hurting her, whisper in her ear that you are going to do something different so that she gets a rest.

If she has at least regular-sized breasts, you can get her to squeeze them together and rub your penis in-between them till you go. Another variant of this is to get her to lie down on her back then simply rub your penis on the area where the back ends and the buttocks start. Anything except penetration, to prevent her from getting hurt/sore.

Of course she might want to finish you off by either sucking you or some other way, and that is nice too. And obviously, if you are too far from orgasming and there is a chance she might want another round, then stop right there, give it a rest then resume it after a while. When you go for another round, remember to get back to the basics and do some preliminary work again.

One good technique that is very easy to learn, yet hard to master, is the "follow the spine" kissing/licking. The immediate areas near our spines are very sensitive. It works when the girl is lying on her stomach. Lie on top of her gently, with your head near the end of her back. There is a bone there called coccyx, or tailbone.

Using the same "hands-in-A-shape" technique I mentioned, rub the base of the spine gently, then start licking the area around it. Now this is the hard-to-master part: move up, all the way to the base of the neck, in a circular pattern, with both your hands and your tongue. When you get up there, bite her neck and her eartips as soft as if you were biting on her ****, blowing hot air gently. Keep licking her neck, in preparation for the way down, but don't be so predictable: all of a sudden throw your hands down, while licking her neck, form the claw-shape and rub your fingernails over her thighs softly.

Start moving down with your hands and tongue, towards the base of the spine again. Every now and then, rub and massage her shoulders, as she will be tensing her body from all the stimulation and you want her to relax and enjoy it. When you finally reach the base of the spine again, scratch her buttocks with your fingernails softly.

Keep working on the base of the spine, move slightly up and gently rub a finger near her mouth. She will suck on it moved by instinct and lust. Now it is time to make her go wild: quickly move your finger that she sucked on and rub it fast, yet gently on her spine. Do it again a few more times, all the while keeping your tongue busy in some area of her back.

Slowly start kissing her buttocks and blow hot air on her genitals without actually touching anything. Lick the inner thighs, massage her legs and, when you notice she is dripping wet, slowly rub one finger near the entrance with a firm, slow, circular pattern. Blow hot air there once more, and finally slip it in with a gently push, licking the base of her spine wildly.

At this point she will be about to scream. Don't go there yet: rub your penis on the base of her spine gently, lift your body a little and, VERY SLOWLY, rub the tip of your penis on her spine, starting from the neck down to the base. Do this a few times, keep fingering her gently, then finally give her what she wants. Slide only the tip of your penis inside her slowly, almost in a blasé-like way, as if you didn't really care for ****ing that much. Move back and forth for a while, making sure not to go too deep. Take it out, make her wait for two seconds that will feel like an eternity, then do it again, slowly.

At this point she will either turn around violently, grab your ass, stare at you with hunger in her soul, and will say "**** me", or will violently throw her body towards you to have all of you inside her.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Cont...

All right, one more before I go home today. If you are married or on a long-term relationship, you may make the horrible mistake of ignoring foreplay entirely. You have to think back to the days where you were both virgins. This one demands an active part of the woman, who has to play like a "I-want-but-won't-let-you-touch-me" girl.

While still dressed, start out by kissing each other. Take your time, as if you were experiencing what was to kiss someone for the first few times. Then caress her neck, back, and try to rub her buttocks. She should play along and act like a teen, first by blocking his hand, then by moving it away from there after a few seconds, only to let go after a while. After this, you should try to rub her breasts. She also has to play along and perform the old "block his hand by moving my elbow/arm so that he can't reach my breasts", resisting bravely for a few minutes, and then letting go. All this, of course, while both are dressed.

After you've grabbed her butt and her breasts, you will try to rub them, but this time, you are going to try to put your hand inside her clothes. She has to block you, even say out loud "No, you can't" only to let go after a while. Do not take anything off, just put your hands inside the blouse. The vagina, however, should only be rubbed over the pants for now.

Now it is the time to get it hot. Still keeping your clothes, stand up and move close to a wall, so that you can press her against it and vice-versa. It is now time to kiss her madly, grab her breasts and her butt firmly, while rubbing your pants on her pants. Make her feel the erection you have. After some two minutes change your positions so that you stand to your back to the wall and she gets to press herself against you, squeeze your butt and rub her hand against your pants, feeling your penis from the outside.

Change positions again, but this time make her face the wall. Put her arms up, then hug her from behind. Start kissing her neck, breathing deeply on her ears, grabbing her breasts and rubbing your penis on her butt.

Whisper on her ear how wonderful and beautiful she is, then reach for the bra and untie it, without taking it off. Move your hand near her mouth so that she licks one finger. Use the other hand to hold or lift her blouse, then quickly rub the wet finger near one of her nipples. Do the same thing again, but this time rub the wet finger directly on her nipple, while still kissing and licking her neck and ears.

Turn her around and kiss her gently. Squeeze her breasts softly, kissing her, and put once again a finger on her mouth. Fool her: don't use the finger on the nipple but rather rub her navel area. Unbutton her pants a little, slide it down a bit if necessary, then get her to lick another finger and move it down there, near the vagina. Do it again, move the finger near her vagina but get it back quickly and rub it on her nipple. Surprise and random patterns are key to success here.

Finally, take off her blouse and gaze at the bra. Move it slowly and lick her nipples, rubbing her back and her navel area in the "A" shape already mentioned. At this point she will take your shirt off and lick your nipples as well. Let she do it, it feels great.

Hold firmly on her breasts and turn her again to face the wall, making sure her nipples are not touching the cold wall. Take off her pants and your pants, keeping your underwear, and start rubbing your penis on her butt while grabbing and squeezing her breasts slightly harder and kissing her neck and her back all the time. Remember to lick her spine as well as previously mentioned.

Move her arms up again so that she bends over a little. Take off her bra, kiss and lick her back all the way to the base of her spine. Put your arms down, as if to grab her feet, then do a claw-like shape with both hands and gently rub your fingernails all over her legs, all the way to the inner thighs. Do this a few more times, then grab her underwear and roll it down her legs.

While still keeping your own underwear, rub your penis on her vagina. This will make you both nuts. Do it a few more times, then finally remove your own underwear and rub your penis against her thighs. Don't touch the vagina yet, it's time for a little fun trip.

Rub the tip of your penis, gently, all the way to her knee line and back, on both legs, then rub it again near her vagina. At this point she will bend over completely and will want you inside her, doggy style, or will push you hard against the bed and jump on top of you. It is up to you to carry on with more foreplay or to finally give it to her.

One very important thing to all young males is to ignore pretty much everything you've seen in porn. Porn is not real sex, it is taped, edited, and is created to arouse males. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy porn as much as anyone else, but to replicate what is seen there will usually end up in disaster.

That said, there are a few things that can help things out quite a bit. When doing a girl doggystyle, for instance, gently pull both her arms in your direction, holding them. Let her go after a while, as this can be very tiresome, and use your hands. Strech one arm to play with her breasts (this might not work if she is too tall), and play with her **** very gently with the free hand.

Never go too deep when doing it doggystyle, because depending on the angle you will hit a vagina wall instead of going all the way inside her, and this hurts. Elevate your body every now and then and kiss her neck and lick her ears slowly and steady. Move your hands all the time when you are not stimulating her directly; rub her back, grab her breasts, press firmly on her waist and say how awesome she is and how horny she makes you feel.

When doing it missionary position, use a pillow under her butt to get her slightly elevated. You will penetrate her deeply and stimulate the g-spot directly if you get it right.

If you don't have a pillow and is strong enough to hold your own weight, put both hands under her ass, grab it and press gently towards you, as if pulling her towards you. Make sure to keep at least one thumb free so that you can use it to stimulate her **** directly while still penetrating her (this sound awkward but after you get the hang of it, this will make your woman real crazy).

When the girl is on top of you she usually has great orgasms if she hits the right angle, as she can control the intensity and speed of penetration. You should always keep your tongue and hands busy. Kiss and lick her breasts, do the claw-formation and softly rub your fingernails all over her back and thighs, as far down as you can reach. Mix your techniques to surprise her: grab her ass firmly and squeeze it real hard when you notice she is breathing heavily, then keep squeezing either buttock with just one hand, playing with the rest of her body with the other. Wet one finger on her vaginal area and make circles around her *******, but don't try to put it inside it unless she asks you to do it or unless you think she is so horny she won't mind. When you do this at the right time it makes her go VERY wild, but if you miss it by one second you will ruin the mood, so take extra care with this particular move.

And a little tip to the ladies: while on top, if you are able to do this without losing your balance, slide one hand towards the balls of your lover and play with your fingers. The balls are very sensitive and men get powerful erections when they are stimulated. A girl who licks and sucks on a man's balls while staring at him and smiling provocatively will dominate him.

 

[Dirtheart]

The core of this article is absolutely right! I don't think how you do it is particularly important and there are a few details here I think are a bit odd, but the art of teasing and building anticipation is a guaranteed winner.

But remember, you can build this anticipation psychologically too and maintaining eye contact during sex whenever possible yields astounding results.