its all about social proof guys...

[shadowfox]

The secret is SOCIAL PROOF. It's so easy guys this is how i can almost get laid with any girl in my school. This is how i did it. I was a shy loser for so long however everything has fallen into place in the last few months.

1) Read up all the good stuff on this website. You know stuff by Pook and that good post by diesel to the people on girlproblems.com. Read it and DIGEST IT.

However dont get sucked into the OVER-ANLAYZING Problem that most people get into and dont get sucked into i dont know it all yet so i wont try it problem. Dont over do the reading!!!!!! Just digest the main points that come into all these posts and they are.
CONFIDENCE (I.e not givin a f**k) and not caring about the outcome cuz ur the prize!

2) So you've read up on the stuff. This is probably the hardest stage to initiate. You have to social network. I.e become friends with your friends friends friend! KEEP SOCIAL NETWORKING!! Talk to everyone! That way eventually you'll advance up the SOCIAL LADDER! Social proof is the key with girls. remember that. It took me ages to start doing this however once i started i became more and more confident and it started a snow bal effect.

3) Get some cool friends. By now you're gonna know about everyone. This is key so get in the cool croud. Leave the science geeks behind. Take up a sport and get in with the people that actually lay girls!!! This is important because now girls will come up to YOU!!!

4) GAME ALL THE GIRLS THAT COME TO YOU!!!!!!!! Because i was hanging wit a hb9 guess wot happened?? All the HB8s fancied me cuz they percieved the hb9 to be better, so if i can get the 9 then i must be the PRIZE. You no wot im saying??? THIS IS WHAT SOCIAL PROOF IS!! Even if u dont get the 9, if shes intrested then and is having fun with you the 8s will pick up on this! and your in then.

At this moment im seeing a girl. I have some great mates. And most importantly im happy.

Who'd have thought this would happen to me? Its so easy people!! SOCIAL PROOF and confidence in yourself. You've got to learn to detach yourself from the outcome of things. LEARN NOT TO CARE!!

Well I'm out, CIAO!!!

Dont take this as a deffinitive guide to girls. Its just what has happened to me.

 

[L777]

The secret is SOCIAL PROOF. It's so easy guys this is how i can almost get laid with any girl in my school. This is how i did it. I was a shy loser for so long however everything has fallen into place in the last few months.

1) Read up all the good stuff on this website. You know stuff by Pook and that good post by diesel to the people on girlproblems.com. Read it and DIGEST IT.

However dont get sucked into the OVER-ANLAYZING Problem that most people get into and dont get sucked into i dont know it all yet so i wont try it problem. Dont over do the reading!!!!!! Just digest the main points that come into all these posts and they are.
CONFIDENCE (I.e not givin a f**k) and not caring about the outcome cuz ur the prize!

2) So you've read up on the stuff. This is probably the hardest stage to initiate. You have to social network. I.e become friends with your friends friends friend! KEEP SOCIAL NETWORKING!! Talk to everyone! That way eventually you'll advance up the SOCIAL LADDER! Social proof is the key with girls. remember that. It took me ages to start doing this however once i started i became more and more confident and it started a snow bal effect.

3) Get some cool friends. By now you're gonna know about everyone. This is key so get in the cool croud. Leave the science geeks behind. Take up a sport and get in with the people that actually lay girls!!! This is important because now girls will come up to YOU!!!

4) GAME ALL THE GIRLS THAT COME TO YOU!!!!!!!! Because i was hanging wit a hb9 guess wot happened?? All the HB8s fancied me cuz they percieved the hb9 to be better, so if i can get the 9 then i must be the PRIZE. You no wot im saying??? THIS IS WHAT SOCIAL PROOF IS!! Even if u dont get the 9, if shes intrested then and is having fun with you the 8s will pick up on this! and your in then.

At this moment im seeing a girl. I have some great mates. And most importantly im happy.

Who'd have thought this would happen to me? Its so easy people!! SOCIAL PROOF and confidence in yourself. You've got to learn to detach yourself from the outcome of things. LEARN NOT TO CARE!!

Well I'm out, CIAO!!!

Dont take this as a deffinitive guide to girls. Its just what has happened to me.

very interesting...

how many more of these boasting/bulls.hit threads do we have to endure?

 

[shadowfox]

very interesting...

how many more of these boasting/bulls.hit threads do we have to endure?

soz ard!11

just sharing what worked for me. i'll admit i didnt just go right step 1, step 2 and did it like that it was a very long proccess... only the last couple of months i've noticed how well things are comming along. and working out helps as well for confidence.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Many receive advice, only the wise profit from it.

Real talk ^^^

But yea, congrats on makin social proof build for you. Social proof is its on best friend. When people see you with other people having fun they want to be a part. Its been said before, but a good post nonetheless :cheer:

 

[Bigg Boss]

Yeah one thing I'm not great with. Social proof... Which is why I end up only pulling girls from other schools.

 

[L777]

soz ard!11

just sharing what worked for me. i'll admit i didnt just go right step 1, step 2 and did it like that it was a very long proccess... only the last couple of months i've noticed how well things are comming along. and working out helps as well for confidence.

well done have a medal

 

[Mr_rogers]

well done have a medal

I could be way out of line here, but I detect a good amount of sarcasm in that comment...

Y'know, this guy is trying to be helpful. I really don't think he spent all the time typing that out just for the sake of boasting about how great he is and all. I'm pretty sure he did it so we - his fellow members of this site - could benefit. Maybe instead of being blatantly sarcastic and rude, you could either take his advice to heart, or, if you don't agree with it, explain why in some detail. Makes a much happier forum, and helps everyone in the long run.:yes:

 

[The Real Ice Man]

Even if he was boasting, he's totally right about social proof. Women decide whether they will have sex with you or not based on factors that sometimes seem to be everything BUT you yourself. They make some of the biggest decisions based on what other people (especially other girls) think of you and who you hang around with. This gives them an excuse to make in their minds that justifies having sex with you because you seem like "such a great guy."

 

[L777]

Even if he was boasting, he's totally right about social proof. Women decide whether they will have sex with you or not based on factors that sometimes seem to be everything BUT you yourself. They make some of the biggest decisions based on what other people (especially other girls) think of you and who you hang around with. This gives them an excuse to make in their minds that justifies having sex with you because you seem like "such a great guy."

does it heck matter who you know.

The first time I went to America, I used the line "Alright?" on this girl who was looking at the same stuff in some skate/surf shop that I was. After that it was easy...and she didn't know who I was or who I knew....I'm sorry but I just totally disagree with this 'social proof' stuff

 

[Deep Dish]

The Real Ice Man:
Even if he was boasting, he's totally right about social proof. Women decide whether they will have sex with you or not based on factors that sometimes seem to be everything BUT you yourself. They make some of the biggest decisions based on what other people (especially other girls) think of you and who you hang around with. This gives them an excuse to make in their minds that justifies having sex with you because you seem like "such a great guy."

Yup, right on.

And many guys seem to become cynical about it, feeling that women are fake and that they are somehow being denied being liked for who they are. Yet, perhaps the fastest, most accurate, and reliable way to find someone’s character is to look at who they associate with, how they interact, and how those other people view them. It’s really no different, guys, from movie or restaurant reviews. If “everyone” goes to a certain restaurant and loves it, or if “everyone” is going to see a certain movie and the reviews are positive, chances are you’ll go to those (and have a good time) rather than some indie restaurant or movie which no one really knows anything about.

Guys, here’s one of my favorite threads. Scroll down and read Pook’s response. Classic.

L777:
I'm sorry but I just totally disagree with this 'social proof' stuff

May I suggest you read up on the science behind this psychological/sociological dynamic which has an impact far more pervasive than getting girls, which I made conveniently available here:

Social Proof: The Key to Society

 

[L777]

May I suggest you read up on the science behind this psychological/sociological dynamic which has an impact far more pervasive than getting girls, which I made conveniently available here:

Social Proof: The Key to Society

oh my god...I give a real life example to back up my arguement and you give me some pop psychology link...I'm not gonna bother clicking it

 

[S1NN3R]

oh my god...I give a real life example to back up my arguement and you give me some pop psychology link...I'm not gonna bother clicking it

HHAHAAAHAHAAAAA!!!!!

That wasn't a real life example backing anything up, you tool. That was barely a sentence, much less any viable proof that your way is in any way better than everyone else's.

One time you said one word to a girl, and SHE KEPT TALKING TO YOU!?!?!?! OMG, call the paramedics!!, I can't fukkin believe it!

Ahem, moving on.....

Social proof does work. And it works wonders, provided that people know what it is and it's limitations. It should not be seen as a technique on it's own, or a replacement for game, your social proof doesn't mean $#!+ if you still don't know the basics of how to pick up hotties. Think of it rather as an add on. Social proof is not the car, it's the big assed turbocharger strapped on. It won't drive you, it'll just make what you already drive faster.

Now, for a genuine real life example, I hit up the clubs about twice a week, and I don't do badly at all. Recently however, I was out with a group of friends to the Foundation Room at Mandalay Bay, which is always great for picking up classy broads as it's members only. One of the guys had brought his girlfriend of the last year. Now while all of the other guys were outside on the balcony smoking and bull$#!++ing, I was inside with let's call her "Susan". Now, Susan is a solid hottie, half Korean, half German, stunning in every way. 8.5-9 face, but a baker's dozen for the body scale, and she knows it and dresses and holds herself accordingly. I had just come from a meeting with the SAC of my area, so I was in my full-blown powersuit, but not really in a pick up mood, I was tired, grumpy, and such. Susan was a lil bit tipsy, so I was content to just hang out and keep an eye on her while her boyfriend was out gallavanting. Susan and I get on really well, so we're standing at the bar or meandering around, just chatting it up, having a good old time for quite a while. Like I said, I do well enough on my own when it comes to pulling tail, but that night was just crazy. Normally, I have to be the aggressor, pursuing the coquettish types all over the place. But that night, I was getting stared down by 9.5s all over the place, I was getting hotties grinding on me, just walking past the dance floor holding Susan's hand, I was getting girls that I propably wouldn't have had the minerals to approach coming up to me and starting conversations. At one point, I was leaning against the bar, talking to Susan, and this girl walks up behind me and while still talking to the guy she was with, starts giving me a one handed backrub under my suit jacket, where her guy can't see. She was probably only a 7.5, but still, that's never happened to me before. I was shocked and awed to say the least.

And the only thing I was doing differently that night was spending all of my time and concentrating all of my attention on one really hot girl. It probably helped that Susan and I have always had this weird sexual tension (but never done anything about it), plus we have great rapport simply from being close friends and I'm sure that was evident to every girl who saw us through our body language.

Other girls are seeing that and possibly thinking to themselves, "why is a girl like that spending every second here with that guy when there are all of these other guys, what does she know about him that I don't, maybe I should get over there and get some of that too, I can show him that I'm even better than her".

It works, trust me. Don't doubt it just because one time one girl that you didn't know gave you the time of day without it.

 

[rowing_mike]

Wow, you got a single girl once without social proof, all this must just be bs. L777, if you disagree, don't listen, don't post, just leave. I completely agree with social proof, if you are seen to be the best by everyone else, that is what her first impression of you will be.

 

[Bling]

I'm not in any group... I'm everyone's acquitance, but few friends. How do I move to friendship, and hang out status?

 

[Heart Break Kid]

I'm not in any group... I'm everyone's acquitance, but few friends. How do I move to friendship, and hang out status?

I find if that they seeing you hang out with cool people, beautiful girls, you inviting them all somewhere once or twice (b-day is killer!) , becoming good friends with the leader, or doing something together that involves you all laughing for a long time all work very effectivlely to get into the hangout status. Basic rapport, cheers.

 

[Deep Dish]

oh my god...I give a real life example to back up my arguement and you give me some pop psychology link...I'm not gonna bother clicking it

Okay, so I win by default.

 

[shydude]

DAmmit I been social proofing with guys for ages.. And u know hat it worked!!! Wanna be popular?? No need to have Pamela Anderson as a gf !! Just have a friend that knows an ugly looking girl!! then become friends with ugly loking girl!!!! Become friends with ugly loking girils friends!!! By dojg that more than half a school knows me and I am kinda popular!!! But still, i have problems with girls. I am working on it!! And soon i will be awarded a gold medal for ****ing my best friends sisters friends brothers gf!!!!!