Self Improvement is what life is all about. You must obtain a passion for your life and everything that it obtains. The moment you wake up is when the improvement starts. The funny thing is each and everyday you feel a little more confident and a little better. You must figure out what EXACTLY you want to improve and commit your life to it. An example of this is obtaining your dream career, improving your body and most importantly improving your social skills. A KEY lesson I have learned on social skills is not caring what people think about you. When you care what people think about you everything will be out of wack TRUST ME. I have lived most of my life caring what other people think and that is why I dont have huge divedends to show for it. When you care what people think you normally process NEGATIVE thoughts and expectations thus expressing these thoughts when you interact with the desired person. That is why it is so critical to not care what people think. Hope this helps and any contribution to my thoughts would be great. I love learning!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Its all about SELF IMPROVEMENT
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