I posted this in the wrong section. Let's try this again. So I've been on this site for a while now. Read different things here and there and I've posted a few times and it's helped but just don't feel like I've gotten far. So I need to know where to start? What to read and just how to get goin on becoming a DJ. is there something on this site that I can read or follow that is up to date with today's world and how interact now with women? Thanks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its about that time
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Serenity
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The DJ bible, just switch out e-mail and such for texts. It's as relevant today as it was back when it was written.