"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's About Fackin Time...

BxPrince24

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for me to really change. I know what to do but i'm not putting it to use like i should be. Well, not no more. Starting tomorrow, I will turn off the tv and not use the computer for anything other than music for one week.

During this week, I will:

A. Go outside as much as possible.

B. Approach every girl (if possible) that I see, no matter if she's ugly or not.

C. I will become more dedicated to working out (actually sticking to my routine). And continue with it.

D. I will start walking around my neighborhood more... If the possibility of me getting jumped arises, I will take my beating fighting back like a man and be happy that i've just increased my toughness and the amount of pain that my body can endure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok. So the weather has been real sh*tty lately so I didn't get to do much. 5 approaches and they pretty much all ended up the same. 4 of them didn't say sh*t to me and continued walking. The other I managed to get her to at least say hi back but she then became anti-social.

I was dressed nice. Smelled good. Started off on all of them with an excuse me. Then I proceeded with either how are you doin? or can I talk to you for a minute? And I got nada. I'm not gonna quit tho.

For some reason I feel that they think i'm like every other teenage gangster wanna b out there. Not realizing I'm an adult in college, since i don't look 19. I dunno.
 
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