"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's About Fackin Time...

BxPrince24

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for me to really change. I know what to do but i'm not putting it to use like i should be. Well, not no more. Starting tomorrow, I will turn off the tv and not use the computer for anything other than music for one week.

During this week, I will:

A. Go outside as much as possible.

B. Approach every girl (if possible) that I see, no matter if she's ugly or not.

C. I will become more dedicated to working out (actually sticking to my routine). And continue with it.

D. I will start walking around my neighborhood more... If the possibility of me getting jumped arises, I will take my beating fighting back like a man and be happy that i've just increased my toughness and the amount of pain that my body can endure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BxPrince24

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ok. So the weather has been real sh*tty lately so I didn't get to do much. 5 approaches and they pretty much all ended up the same. 4 of them didn't say sh*t to me and continued walking. The other I managed to get her to at least say hi back but she then became anti-social.

I was dressed nice. Smelled good. Started off on all of them with an excuse me. Then I proceeded with either how are you doin? or can I talk to you for a minute? And I got nada. I'm not gonna quit tho.

For some reason I feel that they think i'm like every other teenage gangster wanna b out there. Not realizing I'm an adult in college, since i don't look 19. I dunno.
 
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