“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Demodulate

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well I let an ex get the better of me the other night...

She txt's out of the blue and wants to know if I want to go out with her.. I agree to meet her out after I take care of some stuff.. Show up.. bug hug and kiss.. she is with 4 other guys.. I should of just left then, but I suck it up, and about 5 minutes later they all leave for various reasons.. so its just me and the ex.. we go have a drink at another bar and on the way over she sees some guy she "doesnt want to see".. we arrive at another club and she starts in on the "you dont love me any more" etc.. etc.. at this point I explain how I felt about her and pretty much AFC chumped it up.. about 2 drinks later she starts with the texting.. and then tells me we can leave whenever.. and that she feels obligated to go see the guy she didnt originally want to see at some other bar..

well I had it at that point and told her to take a hike.. she was pissed and said i would be calling her to apologize later that night.. of course I have no intention of doing it..

should of never went out with her.. and I am thoroughly aggravated with myself for how I handled it.. I get so irrational around her..

so.. two thumbs down for hanging out with ex's...

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's hard...you want to give them the benefit of the doubt...assume they're just socially stupid and don't know any better. But as soon as she showed up with 4 other men, you probably should've made an excuse to eject.

But then, you shouldn't be messing with exes anyway, really.
 
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My BPD ex is calling again and wants a date. She is calling because I encouraged it and sent her AFC texts confessing my love to her just for fun to see what happens.

That was a couple weeks ago, and I have moved on but still make her laugh whenever we communicate and now she wants to cash in on my undying love for her which isn't really love, it's just infatuation because she is such a freak.

I'm going to see her again but the ending is not going to be pretty because she is going to try and get serious I think.
 

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