"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's a no win situation

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confuscioused

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Because even if you meet a pretty attractive girl in any guys standards you are on your tippy toes 24/7. The simple fact these girls utilize online dating, hit on everywhere they go including work etc. Any little blunder or miscommunication or anything they have ten guys in their phone waiting in the bullpen or asking for their digits everywhere they go. All of this spinning plates is fine and dandy and I've done it the fact remains girls don't need to chase you when they have every Tom, **** and Harry knocking on their door. Guys feel obliged and are enslaved to think they have to text everyday and keep on top of her because he knows how competitive it is. Point is the game gets old real fast and I refuse to sleep with ugly and or fat chicks so that narrows it down to the pool that 99% of guys are competing for. Girls are well aware of this and they don't have to work for any guys attention anymore. I see fat and ugly girls with attitudes in bars which is pretty fuc kin hilarious to say the least.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Outside of a club environment, where does this idea come from that girls are hit on every 5 minutes? Is this from the horses mouth are a bit of a myth? It's never something I've heard my female friends complaining about.

If she finds you attractive it's yours to mess up, if you have this mentality that you are now short-listed to x amount of other guys you need to compete with, you are in danger of f!*king it up by trying too hard/rushing it..

You either have it or you don't (with each particular girl). My personal mentality is always: I am what I am, I'll show my hand and she can take it or leave it. Competition is for things like sport where effort/outcome has a less futile correlation.
 
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Stop victimizing yourself and man the @$&*% up.

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
 
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blindnowisee. said:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
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I like that quote, so easy to talk yourself out of being onto a winner with self doubt.
 
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