It's expensive and you must be dedicated. But does it really matter what you weigh or how you look? I just don't have the time, money, or dedication to eat like I should to gain 20lbs and I'm happy with how I look. I don't look skinny, but I definitely have a slim build. Skinny in my opinion is looking unhealthy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's a lot of work to gain (and maintain) weight.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
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If youre happy with how you look then why do you care?
Quiksilver
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Yes it matters how you look, not so much what you weigh though you can't discount that either.
Eye of the beholder and everything, you think you look 'slim', other people might think you look skinny. On the other hand, people might think you look normal.
If you don't have the time, money, and dedication to look bigger/be stronger/feel better, then don't worry about it. There's a million people in the world like you for every person who takes their health and fitness into their own hands, so don't think you're alone in your decision.
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Food is actually cheaper when your on a meal not to mention you know actually where the food is coming from. As for the "I don't have time" is crap. EVERYONE (me included) makes time for the things in life that are important to them.
Food is actually cheaper when your on a meal not to mention you know actually where the food is coming from. As for the "I don't have time" is crap. EVERYONE (me included) makes time for the things in life that are important to them.
JeffCollins
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If you happy with your build then it is great that you should not think about bodybuilding.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.