"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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its a kind of magic

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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well, we had a discussion in the morning and we broke up for 2 hours (we´re together again), in those 2 hours I went for lunch.

at the restaurant, I couldnt believe how the chicks were checking me out!! Eye contact, smiles... man.....

Maybe Im just freaking out, but being free for 2 hours made me feel really good. hehehehehehhehe
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well they didn't KNOW you had broken up with your girl, did they? Were you storming around and throwing things? Or crying?

If not, then why don't we be a little more analytical. Why do YOU think these women were attracted to you? :p
 

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female instincts - have you heard about it? it works.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It was your perspective and outlook that changed - you see things differently as a 'single' man than a man that is already 'taken'. In your newfound single state, you were more observant of the opposite sex because they were on your mind and you saw them as a target!
 
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