"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's a 'friends' thing.

Naughty Ninja

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When a woman tells a guy "Let's just be friends" it's not a good thing.


When a woman you're dating tells you that another guy is "just a friend" it's not a good thing either.



Women and guy's being "friends" is not a good equation any way you look at it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scars

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It would definitely raise a red flag with me. But I wouldn't go as far as to say she couldn't have guy friends.

As I've developed my skills I've started learning who is a real threat and who isn't. There's some guys who are just so beta or so lame and you know they have absolutely no chance in hell. However, you do occasionally run into a guy that can spit a little game. The best tactic is to always act like your better. But don't just act. BE the better man. Make her think that if she is with anyone other than you then she is stupid. Make her think she would be absolutely stupid to ever fvck up. When I see a threat I take affirmative action. When you make this other "player" feel belittled, he will often retaliate and talking some smack. When people talk smack, consider it a good thing. There's nothing better than an ego boost then people constantly having your name in their mouth, or constantly reminding a girl why she shouldn't be with you.. it just makes them want you even more. At the end of the day I think it's all about confidence and how you handle things. However, if a girl has a lot of "guy friends" I usually consider that a red flag. And that would be a girl I wouldn't get into a relationship with in the first place. If something doesn't seem right, take action. The longer you wait, the more she thinks she can get away with that sh!t. Playfully let her know that guy friends are okay, but you shouldn't be talking to them excessively, or hanging out with them a lone. A good girl knows better than that. Just use your judgment, and trust in hers. If you ever feel like something is wrong, then there probably is. Next.
 

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Remember Ladder Theory:

It's permissable for men & women to LJBF, once the sex is out of the way. So, if she refers to him as "Just a friend", it's likely they've ALREADY shagged and moved on.

I've found that it's helpful if she has other guys as her Emotional Tampons, so I don't have to handle that sort of menial abuse.
 
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